LondonDiva
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This is with regard to self relaxing.
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blasianbeauty
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I've never had a professional relaxer as well, but I think that I get great results when I relax myself. It's because I know my new growth so good, that I know what it takes to really smooth it out (which is using the back of a small tooth comb) /images/graemlins/smile.gif
I really don't perm my hair myself. I let my mom do it. She's the only one that I let do it since I've been getting perms. I let the stylist do it a few times (3 times at the most), but I never liked it as much. They are stingy with the perm and it never seems to last as long when they do it.
I was never one to relax my own hair until a stylist wanted to charge me $100 for a relaxer/roller wrap..from then on I do my relaxers most of the time. I just relaxed Saturday with Mizani for Medium texture hair and it came out well...I still prefer the sensitive scalp formula.One thing that I do know is that I neutralize my hair ALOT longer then it is at the salon...this weekend it took me six rinses for all of the relaxer to be removed ...and I still let the foaming neutralizer set on my hair for about 15minutes(just in case).Then I sat under the dryer with the Hydrafuse/Kerafuse mixture for 20 minutes and rollerset. I should have used heat to dry my rollerset, but I let it air dry and it came out nice, but not as silky as I would like. All in all, I do a much better job of relaxing my own hair
and I don't have to waste four hours at the salon. Now if I find a good hairstylist that really cares about hair..I would definitely go for her services.
and I don't have to waste four hours at the salon. Now if I find a good hairstylist that really cares about hair..I would definitely go for her services.
kitchen_tician
New Member
I've been self relaxing for years, but I've had stylists relax it regularly in the past. I'm not totally opposed to having a stylist relax my hair, I just don't like playing "musical chairs" trying to find somone. And not to mention wasting, time, money and maybe even hair.
I voted but I can't see the results of the poll.
I voted but I can't see the results of the poll.
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I've been self relaxing for years, but I've had stylists relax it regularly in the past. I'm not totally opposed to having a stylist relax my hair, I just don't like playing "musical chairs" trying to find somone. And not to mention wasting, time, money and maybe even hair.
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Same here. I've had mine relaxed professionally twice. The first lady did a very good job, but she gave me a lopsided haircut. The other lady was just ok, nothing that I couldn't do. Everytime I think about letting a professional do it, I remember that I could save $50+ by just doing it myself.
I've been self relaxing for years, but I've had stylists relax it regularly in the past. I'm not totally opposed to having a stylist relax my hair, I just don't like playing "musical chairs" trying to find somone. And not to mention wasting, time, money and maybe even hair.
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Same here. I've had mine relaxed professionally twice. The first lady did a very good job, but she gave me a lopsided haircut. The other lady was just ok, nothing that I couldn't do. Everytime I think about letting a professional do it, I remember that I could save $50+ by just doing it myself.
sengschick
The Bun Master
I plan to self-relax for the first time* next weekend. My last 'stylist' experience was horrible. I don't think we (my almost-DH /images/graemlins/smile.gif is doing it) could do any worse. Especially since she used the wrong strength product last time and smoothed the heck out of my curls /images/graemlins/mad.gif. I'm nervous, but I trust my product and I think this is the only way I'll get what I truly want. I know I won't lose tons of hair due to improper detangling or re-expose my non-virgin hair by pulling relaxer through the length that doesn't need it.
*I'm sure I self-relaxed as a teen, though I don't recall doing much more than my perimeters. This will be first time as a 'hair-aware' person /images/graemlins/wink.gif and after 8 years of being natural.
*I'm sure I self-relaxed as a teen, though I don't recall doing much more than my perimeters. This will be first time as a 'hair-aware' person /images/graemlins/wink.gif and after 8 years of being natural.
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I plan to self-relax for the first time* next weekend. My last 'stylist' experience was horrible. I don't think we (my almost-DH /images/graemlins/smile.gif is doing it) could do any worse. Especially since she used the wrong strength product last time and smoothed the heck out of my curls /images/graemlins/mad.gif. I'm nervous, but I trust my product and I think this is the only way I'll get what I truly want. I know I won't lose tons of hair due to improper detangling or re-expose my non-virgin hair by pulling relaxer through the length that doesn't need it.
*I'm sure I self-relaxed as a teen, though I don't recall doing much more than my perimeters. This will be first time as a 'hair-aware' person /images/graemlins/wink.gif and after 8 years of being natural.
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What relaxer will you be using?
I plan to self-relax for the first time* next weekend. My last 'stylist' experience was horrible. I don't think we (my almost-DH /images/graemlins/smile.gif is doing it) could do any worse. Especially since she used the wrong strength product last time and smoothed the heck out of my curls /images/graemlins/mad.gif. I'm nervous, but I trust my product and I think this is the only way I'll get what I truly want. I know I won't lose tons of hair due to improper detangling or re-expose my non-virgin hair by pulling relaxer through the length that doesn't need it.
*I'm sure I self-relaxed as a teen, though I don't recall doing much more than my perimeters. This will be first time as a 'hair-aware' person /images/graemlins/wink.gif and after 8 years of being natural.
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What relaxer will you be using?
<font color="purple">I never have a stylist relax my hair because they don't know what they're doing. I always do my own relaxers, and have been at it for years. A year ago, after being natural for a long time, I did my whole head relaxed. This past Saturday, I did my own touchups and they always turned out real smooth and well done like a professional. So I voted the first answer. Doing it yourself takes the time to apply the relaxer, smoothing, and rinsing. A stylist is always blabbing away, instead of checking on the client to see how the hair is straightened. Also, your hair that was supposed to be relaxed, turns out underprocessed or overprocessed and damaged. So self-relaxing is the way to go if you want to DIY (Do It Yourself). </font>
lowkeyhomie
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I've never had a professional relaxer as well, but I think that I get great results when I relax myself.
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I've never had a professional relaxer as well, but I think that I get great results when I relax myself.
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LondonDiva
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Although I do just as well as a professional stylist, I am thinking of going back for relaxers only because I am getting...lazy.
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Kaddy don't do it, unless you find someone that cares about your hair more than you do, which I think is a hard feat. How often do you relax.
Although I do just as well as a professional stylist, I am thinking of going back for relaxers only because I am getting...lazy.
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Kaddy don't do it, unless you find someone that cares about your hair more than you do, which I think is a hard feat. How often do you relax.
KAddy
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Although I do just as well as a professional stylist, I am thinking of going back for relaxers only because I am getting...lazy.
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Kaddy don't do it, unless you find someone that cares about your hair more than you do, which I think is a hard feat. How often do you relax.
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I have a wonderful stylist that is into hair care that I am thinking about returning to. I relax every 10-12 weeks. I am trying to go 12 weeks right now, I am at week 8.
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Although I do just as well as a professional stylist, I am thinking of going back for relaxers only because I am getting...lazy.
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Kaddy don't do it, unless you find someone that cares about your hair more than you do, which I think is a hard feat. How often do you relax.
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I have a wonderful stylist that is into hair care that I am thinking about returning to. I relax every 10-12 weeks. I am trying to go 12 weeks right now, I am at week 8.
Dolce_Dawn
New Member
I voted that I am WAY better than a professional. My hair always comes out the way I want it, I don't have to haggle w/anyone, it costs less, and I'm always available for appts. My hair is healthy and long and it's all thanks to my patience in wanting to learn my hair. /images/graemlins/up.gif
flyjump00
New Member
I think I am better b/c I don't feel the little broken hair stubbles that I use to feel around my hairline after a sylist would relax my hair. Also, I have been able to retain more healthier growth on my own. Going on 8 years of taking care of my own hair!!! /images/graemlins/clap.gif
sengschick
The Bun Master
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I plan to self-relax for the first time* next weekend. My last 'stylist' experience was horrible. I don't think we (my almost-DH /images/graemlins/smile.gif is doing it) could do any worse. Especially since she used the wrong strength product last time and smoothed the heck out of my curls /images/graemlins/mad.gif. I'm nervous, but I trust my product and I think this is the only way I'll get what I truly want. I know I won't lose tons of hair due to improper detangling or re-expose my non-virgin hair by pulling relaxer through the length that doesn't need it.
*I'm sure I self-relaxed as a teen, though I don't recall doing much more than my perimeters. This will be first time as a 'hair-aware' person /images/graemlins/wink.gif and after 8 years of being natural.
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My trusty PhytoRelaxer (Index 1). It should be arriving any day now /images/graemlins/trampoline.gif.
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I plan to self-relax for the first time* next weekend. My last 'stylist' experience was horrible. I don't think we (my almost-DH /images/graemlins/smile.gif is doing it) could do any worse. Especially since she used the wrong strength product last time and smoothed the heck out of my curls /images/graemlins/mad.gif. I'm nervous, but I trust my product and I think this is the only way I'll get what I truly want. I know I won't lose tons of hair due to improper detangling or re-expose my non-virgin hair by pulling relaxer through the length that doesn't need it.
*I'm sure I self-relaxed as a teen, though I don't recall doing much more than my perimeters. This will be first time as a 'hair-aware' person /images/graemlins/wink.gif and after 8 years of being natural.
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What relaxer will you be using?
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/images/graemlins/wave.gif Boca
My trusty PhytoRelaxer (Index 1). It should be arriving any day now /images/graemlins/trampoline.gif.
KAddy
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I plan to self-relax for the first time* next weekend. My last 'stylist' experience was horrible. I don't think we (my almost-DH /images/graemlins/smile.gif is doing it) could do any worse. Especially since she used the wrong strength product last time and smoothed the heck out of my curls /images/graemlins/mad.gif. I'm nervous, but I trust my product and I think this is the only way I'll get what I truly want. I know I won't lose tons of hair due to improper detangling or re-expose my non-virgin hair by pulling relaxer through the length that doesn't need it.
*I'm sure I self-relaxed as a teen, though I don't recall doing much more than my perimeters. This will be first time as a 'hair-aware' person /images/graemlins/wink.gif and after 8 years of being natural.
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/images/graemlins/wave.gif Boca
My trusty PhytoRelaxer (Index 1). It should be arriving any day now /images/graemlins/trampoline.gif.
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SC, where are you ordering it from? I am about to order mine nextweek (I am still stretching my relaxer). Of course I will be getting Index 2 and I found a place that sells Index 2 for $40.
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I plan to self-relax for the first time* next weekend. My last 'stylist' experience was horrible. I don't think we (my almost-DH /images/graemlins/smile.gif is doing it) could do any worse. Especially since she used the wrong strength product last time and smoothed the heck out of my curls /images/graemlins/mad.gif. I'm nervous, but I trust my product and I think this is the only way I'll get what I truly want. I know I won't lose tons of hair due to improper detangling or re-expose my non-virgin hair by pulling relaxer through the length that doesn't need it.
*I'm sure I self-relaxed as a teen, though I don't recall doing much more than my perimeters. This will be first time as a 'hair-aware' person /images/graemlins/wink.gif and after 8 years of being natural.
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What relaxer will you be using?
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/images/graemlins/wave.gif Boca
My trusty PhytoRelaxer (Index 1). It should be arriving any day now /images/graemlins/trampoline.gif.
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SC, where are you ordering it from? I am about to order mine nextweek (I am still stretching my relaxer). Of course I will be getting Index 2 and I found a place that sells Index 2 for $40.
sengschick
The Bun Master
Where???!!!! I already paid the $60 from hairboutique.com /images/graemlins/censored.gif. /images/graemlins/mad.gif I knew I should have asked around first. I'm thinking about returning it for an Index 2, b/c I'm not sure how straight its going to make my hair. And you know I'm multi-textured already /images/graemlins/ohwell.gif. Maybe I can just return it or cancel the order. /images/graemlins/sekret.gif
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I plan to self-relax for the first time* next weekend. My last 'stylist' experience was horrible. I don't think we (my almost-DH /images/graemlins/smile.gif is doing it) could do any worse. Especially since she used the wrong strength product last time and smoothed the heck out of my curls /images/graemlins/mad.gif. I'm nervous, but I trust my product and I think this is the only way I'll get what I truly want. I know I won't lose tons of hair due to improper detangling or re-expose my non-virgin hair by pulling relaxer through the length that doesn't need it.
*I'm sure I self-relaxed as a teen, though I don't recall doing much more than my perimeters. This will be first time as a 'hair-aware' person /images/graemlins/wink.gif and after 8 years of being natural.
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What relaxer will you be using?
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/images/graemlins/wave.gif Boca
My trusty PhytoRelaxer (Index 1). It should be arriving any day now /images/graemlins/trampoline.gif.
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Thanks, Also have you ever used Affirm? If you have, how would you compare the two? I've been hearing a lot about this phytorelaxer.
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I plan to self-relax for the first time* next weekend. My last 'stylist' experience was horrible. I don't think we (my almost-DH /images/graemlins/smile.gif is doing it) could do any worse. Especially since she used the wrong strength product last time and smoothed the heck out of my curls /images/graemlins/mad.gif. I'm nervous, but I trust my product and I think this is the only way I'll get what I truly want. I know I won't lose tons of hair due to improper detangling or re-expose my non-virgin hair by pulling relaxer through the length that doesn't need it.
*I'm sure I self-relaxed as a teen, though I don't recall doing much more than my perimeters. This will be first time as a 'hair-aware' person /images/graemlins/wink.gif and after 8 years of being natural.
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What relaxer will you be using?
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/images/graemlins/wave.gif Boca
My trusty PhytoRelaxer (Index 1). It should be arriving any day now /images/graemlins/trampoline.gif.
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Thanks, Also have you ever used Affirm? If you have, how would you compare the two? I've been hearing a lot about this phytorelaxer.
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I plan to self-relax for the first time* next weekend. My last 'stylist' experience was horrible. I don't think we (my almost-DH /images/graemlins/smile.gif is doing it) could do any worse. Especially since she used the wrong strength product last time and smoothed the heck out of my curls /images/graemlins/mad.gif. I'm nervous, but I trust my product and I think this is the only way I'll get what I truly want. I know I won't lose tons of hair due to improper detangling or re-expose my non-virgin hair by pulling relaxer through the length that doesn't need it.
*I'm sure I self-relaxed as a teen, though I don't recall doing much more than my perimeters. This will be first time as a 'hair-aware' person /images/graemlins/wink.gif and after 8 years of being natural.
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What relaxer will you be using?
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/images/graemlins/wave.gif Boca
My trusty PhytoRelaxer (Index 1). It should be arriving any day now /images/graemlins/trampoline.gif.
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SC, where are you ordering it from? I am about to order mine nextweek (I am still stretching my relaxer). Of course I will be getting Index 2 and I found a place that sells Index 2 for $40.
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Which place is that? I've only seen it for $60. Please do tell.
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I plan to self-relax for the first time* next weekend. My last 'stylist' experience was horrible. I don't think we (my almost-DH /images/graemlins/smile.gif is doing it) could do any worse. Especially since she used the wrong strength product last time and smoothed the heck out of my curls /images/graemlins/mad.gif. I'm nervous, but I trust my product and I think this is the only way I'll get what I truly want. I know I won't lose tons of hair due to improper detangling or re-expose my non-virgin hair by pulling relaxer through the length that doesn't need it.
*I'm sure I self-relaxed as a teen, though I don't recall doing much more than my perimeters. This will be first time as a 'hair-aware' person /images/graemlins/wink.gif and after 8 years of being natural.
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What relaxer will you be using?
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/images/graemlins/wave.gif Boca
My trusty PhytoRelaxer (Index 1). It should be arriving any day now /images/graemlins/trampoline.gif.
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SC, where are you ordering it from? I am about to order mine nextweek (I am still stretching my relaxer). Of course I will be getting Index 2 and I found a place that sells Index 2 for $40.
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Which place is that? I've only seen it for $60. Please do tell.
sengschick
The Bun Master
@ Boca: I was natural before and the only relaxer I recall being used in my hair was in a gold jar w/purple writing /images/graemlins/look.gif. Pretty sure it wasn't Affirm /images/graemlins/ohwell.gif, so I have no basis to compare. Affirm sounds great to me and if for some reason I had to switch, it would be to Affirm. The major difference is that Affirm is lye and Phyto is 'no-lye', but it doesn't have calcium hydroxide either (so it doesn't contain the typical no-lye base). Phyto is naturally based (but obviously not chemical free), it's egg and soya based. I can never find the ingredient listing online when I need it of course, but this is from the Phytospecific website:
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PhytoRelaxer is a luxurious experience of long-lasting control, manageability and versatility. A genuine innovation from PhytoSolba Laboratories, the formula incorporates a breakthrough discovery using active ingredients from 100% natural origin: the active egg extract relaxes and smoothes, while soya offers antioxidant properties and hydration. Simultaneously, PhytoRelaxer protects the hair shaft from dehydration and minimizes scalp irritation. After the application of this exclusive high-technology relaxing complex your hair will feel and look more silky, strong and radiant.
The PhytoRelaxer is easy as 1, 2, 3: Mix, Apply and Neutralize. It works the same as any permanent relaxer, but contrary to those products, it relaxes without hydroxides, thioglycolic acid and its derivatives. Originated from the PhytoTheratrie the PhytoRelaxer respects the natural flora of your scalp, while obtaining stunning results.
PhytoRelaxer is a multi-purpose curl reduction cream suitable for all naturally curly textures. It effectively straightens, relaxes, texturizes or tames unwanted, unruly curl patterns with a guaranteed chemical free formula. Choose from two indexes according to your hair texture:
PhytoRelaxer Index 1: for Delicate, Fine Hair
PhytoRelaxer Index 2: for Normal, Thick, Coarse Hair
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PhytoRelaxer is a luxurious experience of long-lasting control, manageability and versatility. A genuine innovation from PhytoSolba Laboratories, the formula incorporates a breakthrough discovery using active ingredients from 100% natural origin: the active egg extract relaxes and smoothes, while soya offers antioxidant properties and hydration. Simultaneously, PhytoRelaxer protects the hair shaft from dehydration and minimizes scalp irritation. After the application of this exclusive high-technology relaxing complex your hair will feel and look more silky, strong and radiant.
The PhytoRelaxer is easy as 1, 2, 3: Mix, Apply and Neutralize. It works the same as any permanent relaxer, but contrary to those products, it relaxes without hydroxides, thioglycolic acid and its derivatives. Originated from the PhytoTheratrie the PhytoRelaxer respects the natural flora of your scalp, while obtaining stunning results.
PhytoRelaxer is a multi-purpose curl reduction cream suitable for all naturally curly textures. It effectively straightens, relaxes, texturizes or tames unwanted, unruly curl patterns with a guaranteed chemical free formula. Choose from two indexes according to your hair texture:
PhytoRelaxer Index 1: for Delicate, Fine Hair
PhytoRelaxer Index 2: for Normal, Thick, Coarse Hair
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@ Boca: I was natural before and the only relaxer I recall being used in my hair was in a gold jar w/purple writing /images/graemlins/look.gif. Pretty sure it wasn't Affirm /images/graemlins/ohwell.gif, so I have no basis to compare. Affirm sounds great to me and if for some reason I had to switch, it would be to Affirm. The major difference is that Affirm is lye and Phyto is 'no-lye', but it doesn't have calcium hydroxide either (so it doesn't contain the typical no-lye base). Phyto is naturally based (but obviously not chemical free), it's egg and soya based. I can never find the ingredient listing online when I need it of course, but this is from the Phytospecific website:
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PhytoRelaxer is a luxurious experience of long-lasting control, manageability and versatility. A genuine innovation from PhytoSolba Laboratories, the formula incorporates a breakthrough discovery using active ingredients from 100% natural origin: the active egg extract relaxes and smoothes, while soya offers antioxidant properties and hydration. Simultaneously, PhytoRelaxer protects the hair shaft from dehydration and minimizes scalp irritation. After the application of this exclusive high-technology relaxing complex your hair will feel and look more silky, strong and radiant.
The PhytoRelaxer is easy as 1, 2, 3: Mix, Apply and Neutralize. It works the same as any permanent relaxer, but contrary to those products, it relaxes without hydroxides, thioglycolic acid and its derivatives. Originated from the PhytoTheratrie the PhytoRelaxer respects the natural flora of your scalp, while obtaining stunning results.
PhytoRelaxer is a multi-purpose curl reduction cream suitable for all naturally curly textures. It effectively straightens, relaxes, texturizes or tames unwanted, unruly curl patterns with a guaranteed chemical free formula. Choose from two indexes according to your hair texture:
PhytoRelaxer Index 1: for Delicate, Fine Hair
PhytoRelaxer Index 2: for Normal, Thick, Coarse Hair
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Thank you so much Sengschick.
@ Boca: I was natural before and the only relaxer I recall being used in my hair was in a gold jar w/purple writing /images/graemlins/look.gif. Pretty sure it wasn't Affirm /images/graemlins/ohwell.gif, so I have no basis to compare. Affirm sounds great to me and if for some reason I had to switch, it would be to Affirm. The major difference is that Affirm is lye and Phyto is 'no-lye', but it doesn't have calcium hydroxide either (so it doesn't contain the typical no-lye base). Phyto is naturally based (but obviously not chemical free), it's egg and soya based. I can never find the ingredient listing online when I need it of course, but this is from the Phytospecific website:
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PhytoRelaxer is a luxurious experience of long-lasting control, manageability and versatility. A genuine innovation from PhytoSolba Laboratories, the formula incorporates a breakthrough discovery using active ingredients from 100% natural origin: the active egg extract relaxes and smoothes, while soya offers antioxidant properties and hydration. Simultaneously, PhytoRelaxer protects the hair shaft from dehydration and minimizes scalp irritation. After the application of this exclusive high-technology relaxing complex your hair will feel and look more silky, strong and radiant.
The PhytoRelaxer is easy as 1, 2, 3: Mix, Apply and Neutralize. It works the same as any permanent relaxer, but contrary to those products, it relaxes without hydroxides, thioglycolic acid and its derivatives. Originated from the PhytoTheratrie the PhytoRelaxer respects the natural flora of your scalp, while obtaining stunning results.
PhytoRelaxer is a multi-purpose curl reduction cream suitable for all naturally curly textures. It effectively straightens, relaxes, texturizes or tames unwanted, unruly curl patterns with a guaranteed chemical free formula. Choose from two indexes according to your hair texture:
PhytoRelaxer Index 1: for Delicate, Fine Hair
PhytoRelaxer Index 2: for Normal, Thick, Coarse Hair
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Thank you so much Sengschick.
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