MysTori
Well-Known Member
Hey members,
I need your advice on something. My friend's, Niya, boyfriend has been lying to her for at least 8 months. He was in a relationship with another woman. Niya had a hunch he was cheating though. Well today, for some unknown reason, the other woman called Niya at her desk...at her job... and hung up. The girl did this about 3 or 4 times. Niya had been trying to call her boyfriend earlier. We were guessing that the girl saw Niya's work number on his phone and called Niya back. Of course the boyfriend isn't answering his phone.
Well Niya and the girl got into it about this guy. Now Niya is worried about the girl calling her job in the future, particularly starting trouble. The phone is a communal phone, any1 can answer it. What do you think she should do? She is in a bad position. She just loaned that joker $300 yesterday b/c he said he needed to get his daughter some gifts. Now we find out he's laying up with his woman. That's who he used the money on most likely.
She was already depressed about the fact that he was probably cheating on her. Now the other woman calls her job! And on top of that, Niya and her boyfriend are supposed to be out of their apartment next Saturday to move into the new apartment. Her finances were tied up in getting the household together. She didn't have a plan to pay the 1st month's rent herself.
I don't know what to say to her. We've prayed and cried and cried and prayed. This is the worse I've seen her and now her job might be on the line. Do ya'll have any advice? And PLEASE pray for her and a quick resolution to this issue. Thanks!
I need your advice on something. My friend's, Niya, boyfriend has been lying to her for at least 8 months. He was in a relationship with another woman. Niya had a hunch he was cheating though. Well today, for some unknown reason, the other woman called Niya at her desk...at her job... and hung up. The girl did this about 3 or 4 times. Niya had been trying to call her boyfriend earlier. We were guessing that the girl saw Niya's work number on his phone and called Niya back. Of course the boyfriend isn't answering his phone.
Well Niya and the girl got into it about this guy. Now Niya is worried about the girl calling her job in the future, particularly starting trouble. The phone is a communal phone, any1 can answer it. What do you think she should do? She is in a bad position. She just loaned that joker $300 yesterday b/c he said he needed to get his daughter some gifts. Now we find out he's laying up with his woman. That's who he used the money on most likely.
She was already depressed about the fact that he was probably cheating on her. Now the other woman calls her job! And on top of that, Niya and her boyfriend are supposed to be out of their apartment next Saturday to move into the new apartment. Her finances were tied up in getting the household together. She didn't have a plan to pay the 1st month's rent herself.
I don't know what to say to her. We've prayed and cried and cried and prayed. This is the worse I've seen her and now her job might be on the line. Do ya'll have any advice? And PLEASE pray for her and a quick resolution to this issue. Thanks!