I hear you, I do,
but sometimes I think women fall so quick that they lose themselves in the process, always doing what HE wants when HE wants, dropping their plans for HIM. I think it's important to maintain aspects of your life that are important to you. If you need to curl up in the house with a book to unwind one or two days a week, or you have a standing nail appointment or workout schedule or whatever, keep it. Don't drop everything for a new love interest. Then if it doesn't last it's harder for things in your life to go back to normal.
This doesn't mean that you can't be honest - I ADORE honesty, but maintain some individuality. A lot of men will interpret that as playing hard to get.