LaShanne
New Member
Ok, heres the deal. I had a big, beautiful healthy baby girl 10 yrs ago. Well, since I had her I could tell that relations with my now ex-h wasnt as....how shall i put it...snug, as it was before. He never complained, but I could tell because my own pleasure level was degraded.
Fast forward to today. I'm now divorced and I've been doing things for myself that i hadnt done before. Such as, I get regular facials now and I tried botox for the first time (around my eyes) and I liked it. Overall, I'm taking much better care of myself now.
Ok, here's the meat of why I started this thread. I am thinking about having a specific procedure that will "tighten" things up "down there" and allow me to once again receive pleasure like I did pre-baby. Now, I know this is medically unneccesary and completely cosmetic, but I like sex, and I want to enjoy relations again like I did in the past. Sorry for the TMI.
Is this crazy? Am I crazy? I know with the economy being what it is, I should save my money, but I've been thinking about this for a while now and I feel like after 16 yrs of taking care of others, its time to take care of me! And this wouldnt just benefit ME, someone else is gonna be one grateful guy ...
FYI - I'm not seeing anyone, or dating or anything. This idea is all mine.
Ok, ladies, give me your feedback. You're the only ones I've talked to about this, as its a very personal topic and I know of NO ONE who has done this. Thanks in advance.
Fast forward to today. I'm now divorced and I've been doing things for myself that i hadnt done before. Such as, I get regular facials now and I tried botox for the first time (around my eyes) and I liked it. Overall, I'm taking much better care of myself now.
Ok, here's the meat of why I started this thread. I am thinking about having a specific procedure that will "tighten" things up "down there" and allow me to once again receive pleasure like I did pre-baby. Now, I know this is medically unneccesary and completely cosmetic, but I like sex, and I want to enjoy relations again like I did in the past. Sorry for the TMI.
Is this crazy? Am I crazy? I know with the economy being what it is, I should save my money, but I've been thinking about this for a while now and I feel like after 16 yrs of taking care of others, its time to take care of me! And this wouldnt just benefit ME, someone else is gonna be one grateful guy ...
FYI - I'm not seeing anyone, or dating or anything. This idea is all mine.
Ok, ladies, give me your feedback. You're the only ones I've talked to about this, as its a very personal topic and I know of NO ONE who has done this. Thanks in advance.