Awwwwwwww, you have a baby. I love babies. You are too cute about the 'donor'; I didn't catch it at first. You have a beautiful family.
As for your hair regime, you're doing a great job with your new methods. Just do what you can and leave the rest to 'prayer' and nature. Through love and prayer
God grows hair faster than anything. That's what I do
I dedicate my hair products to Him and pray for His loving touch upon my head and hair, that He will make it grow without a care. On the nights when I'm just too tired...He does the rest and gives us His very best.
God bless you twnz&1mo, and your family.
While you are sleeping
your hair is growing and flowing in God's loving hands. Amen.