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Well... I've always wondered about the online dating game. How do things go when things go from online to offline? I've hung out with some guys I have met online in the past. I've had some, um, interactions with a couple as well. But to be honest...I don't know how anything would transition from online-offline and be a serious relationship w/o a ridiculous amount of openness, and a lot of people don't wanna be that open.
These questions are for people's general opinions, but also I would love to hear from anyone in a committed relationship and/or marriage that started out as an online relationship.
Q: Do you think people online meet more often on accident (like chat rooms, message boards, social networking sites) or do you think they meet via a site specifically for dating (match.com, eharmony)?
Q: Would you be kind of paranoid if your guy was all flirty and had a lot of online lady friends even after meeting you and expressing interest in a relationship with you?
Q: Would you want total access/openness to his account or would you want him to close the account (give you his Myspace password, shut down his match.com account, etc)?
Q: Do you think that trust is harder for online relationships, because stuff you do online is easier to conceal (it's easier to have multiple email addresses than it is to have a secret cellphone that you have to keep buried in a ziplock back in the yard and sneak off to use)?
Q: Do you think that most people online and "looking" already have someone they are with?
Q: Would you be comfortable with the e-displays of love, like having his face plastered on your Facebook page and having a gallery of "Me and My Boo" in your MySpace photos?
Q: Do you think that people do the e-displays of love to reassure their partner, or do you think it is genuine?
Q: Would you expect your man to remove his "sexy pictures" from his profile, or would you remove the "sexy pictures" of yourself?
Q: How do you handle those aggressively flirtatious comments from people on their page? "Hey boo, I think you are so hot and I hope we can make this work some day in the future." <--- comments like that never come "unsolicited from total strangers", so how would you handle that?
These questions are for people's general opinions, but also I would love to hear from anyone in a committed relationship and/or marriage that started out as an online relationship.
Q: Do you think people online meet more often on accident (like chat rooms, message boards, social networking sites) or do you think they meet via a site specifically for dating (match.com, eharmony)?
Q: Would you be kind of paranoid if your guy was all flirty and had a lot of online lady friends even after meeting you and expressing interest in a relationship with you?
Q: Would you want total access/openness to his account or would you want him to close the account (give you his Myspace password, shut down his match.com account, etc)?
Q: Do you think that trust is harder for online relationships, because stuff you do online is easier to conceal (it's easier to have multiple email addresses than it is to have a secret cellphone that you have to keep buried in a ziplock back in the yard and sneak off to use)?
Q: Do you think that most people online and "looking" already have someone they are with?
Q: Would you be comfortable with the e-displays of love, like having his face plastered on your Facebook page and having a gallery of "Me and My Boo" in your MySpace photos?
Q: Do you think that people do the e-displays of love to reassure their partner, or do you think it is genuine?
Q: Would you expect your man to remove his "sexy pictures" from his profile, or would you remove the "sexy pictures" of yourself?
Q: How do you handle those aggressively flirtatious comments from people on their page? "Hey boo, I think you are so hot and I hope we can make this work some day in the future." <--- comments like that never come "unsolicited from total strangers", so how would you handle that?