Xerxes
Well-Known Member
Ok, first, let's get an idea for who the oldest virgin looking for a husband is. So if you plan on remaining a virgin forever, this thread is not for you.
I am trying to find girls in the same boat as myself who have been waiting on their Boaz for so long that they are truly wondering if God wants them to even have a husband in the first place.
So please answer the poll and answer the following questions so we can begin a dialogue and begin praying our future relationships into existence and take ownership of our situation and not sit around feeling left behind.
1) How old are you?
2) How long have you been a Christian?
3) Why do you think you are without a spouse?
4) What actions are you taking to get a spouse?
5) What makes you think you are ready to receive a spouse?
6) What are you willing to offer your future husband?
I'll start off. I'm a 29 year old who's been a Christian for 16 years. I've lived a complete abstinent lifestyle, moreso because I have never seen any benefit to engaging in sexual activity of any sort outside of marriage.
Now that I am doing my countdown to 30, I have woefully realized that I have never had a true romance let alone one true committed relationship. I have dated several men and each of the relationships ended abruptly when I would not move in with them and or sleep with them.
I have yet to meet one attractive man who lives the same Christian lifestyle that I do.
All of the women in relationships that I know have made compromises and it's high-time that I evaluate what kind of man I can be happy with.
I think that I am single because God wants me to be single for this interim.
In order to increase my chances of getting in a worthwhile relationship, I am social and active. I workout everyday. I have a great physique, am attractive, dress well, and am unbelievably personable.
I believe I am ready for a spouse because I have a great sense of self and I am tired of being alone. I want a support system, someone to pick me up if I work past midnight. Until I fly back home, I won't have had a hug in ages. I'm ready to show and receive love.
I'm an affectionate person and this is really starting to wear me down.
As far as what I am willing to offer my future spouse, everything but my soul. I'm an extremely caring person and I truly love making others happy and I do it all day at work. I can't wait to care for someone who willfully chooses to love me back.
To that end, I don't want to end up like the "52 Weeks to Find Him" lady, so I will make this appeal to Jesus and let you ladies either participate or spectate. Jesus, I need a sign that You are in control of this situation and by June 16, 2011, I will have met my fiance and he will be revealed to me by this sign, he will physically grab me by the shoulders and ask for my permission to love, cherish and care for me.
During this time, I will continue being prayerful, volunteer even more at church and tithe sacrificially (ie. in abundance).
I am trying to find girls in the same boat as myself who have been waiting on their Boaz for so long that they are truly wondering if God wants them to even have a husband in the first place.
So please answer the poll and answer the following questions so we can begin a dialogue and begin praying our future relationships into existence and take ownership of our situation and not sit around feeling left behind.
1) How old are you?
2) How long have you been a Christian?
3) Why do you think you are without a spouse?
4) What actions are you taking to get a spouse?
5) What makes you think you are ready to receive a spouse?
6) What are you willing to offer your future husband?
I'll start off. I'm a 29 year old who's been a Christian for 16 years. I've lived a complete abstinent lifestyle, moreso because I have never seen any benefit to engaging in sexual activity of any sort outside of marriage.
Now that I am doing my countdown to 30, I have woefully realized that I have never had a true romance let alone one true committed relationship. I have dated several men and each of the relationships ended abruptly when I would not move in with them and or sleep with them.
I have yet to meet one attractive man who lives the same Christian lifestyle that I do.
All of the women in relationships that I know have made compromises and it's high-time that I evaluate what kind of man I can be happy with.
I think that I am single because God wants me to be single for this interim.
In order to increase my chances of getting in a worthwhile relationship, I am social and active. I workout everyday. I have a great physique, am attractive, dress well, and am unbelievably personable.
I believe I am ready for a spouse because I have a great sense of self and I am tired of being alone. I want a support system, someone to pick me up if I work past midnight. Until I fly back home, I won't have had a hug in ages. I'm ready to show and receive love.
I'm an affectionate person and this is really starting to wear me down.
As far as what I am willing to offer my future spouse, everything but my soul. I'm an extremely caring person and I truly love making others happy and I do it all day at work. I can't wait to care for someone who willfully chooses to love me back.
To that end, I don't want to end up like the "52 Weeks to Find Him" lady, so I will make this appeal to Jesus and let you ladies either participate or spectate. Jesus, I need a sign that You are in control of this situation and by June 16, 2011, I will have met my fiance and he will be revealed to me by this sign, he will physically grab me by the shoulders and ask for my permission to love, cherish and care for me.
During this time, I will continue being prayerful, volunteer even more at church and tithe sacrificially (ie. in abundance).