BroadstreetBully
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Goodness, I feel like I'm returning to old ways . I'm too lame, but I like talking about relationships to you all!
So I've been single for a few months, and while I enjoyed the single life for a while I was bitten by that lonliness bug. So Spring semester starts and I figure I might meet a fling somewhere on campus. Well lo and behold, in one of my courses this guy walks in and I am sorta drawn to him. I mean he's cute and "unique" (I love unique)...but I kinda figured he wouldn't see me as his type so I forgot about him and focused on some other guys as well as my studies
Well lately I've noticed that he's been staring at me. At first I thought I was paranoid, but I realized he really was staring at me all the time. I even moved on the other side of the hall in the back, and he still managed to turn around and stare at me. I don't return eye contact. I don't know if he's interested or if I have something on my face. But I find it flattering.
Well here's the thing. Old me would try to initiate convo, but I'm tired of being to one to get things started. It never works out when I do. I figure this, whenever I REALLY wanted to get to know a guy, I'd go out of the way to find out more about him, and to approach him. So I figure any guy who thinks I'm worth getting to know would do the same. I guess I'm tired of the shy, "admire from afar" types.
So do you think it's a good idea for me to focus my attention elsewhere, unless he decides to approach? Would I be doing too much by smiling at him? I guess for once I want to be chased. Not just "looked at", no matter how shy a guy might be.
So I've been single for a few months, and while I enjoyed the single life for a while I was bitten by that lonliness bug. So Spring semester starts and I figure I might meet a fling somewhere on campus. Well lo and behold, in one of my courses this guy walks in and I am sorta drawn to him. I mean he's cute and "unique" (I love unique)...but I kinda figured he wouldn't see me as his type so I forgot about him and focused on some other guys as well as my studies
Well lately I've noticed that he's been staring at me. At first I thought I was paranoid, but I realized he really was staring at me all the time. I even moved on the other side of the hall in the back, and he still managed to turn around and stare at me. I don't return eye contact. I don't know if he's interested or if I have something on my face. But I find it flattering.
Well here's the thing. Old me would try to initiate convo, but I'm tired of being to one to get things started. It never works out when I do. I figure this, whenever I REALLY wanted to get to know a guy, I'd go out of the way to find out more about him, and to approach him. So I figure any guy who thinks I'm worth getting to know would do the same. I guess I'm tired of the shy, "admire from afar" types.
So do you think it's a good idea for me to focus my attention elsewhere, unless he decides to approach? Would I be doing too much by smiling at him? I guess for once I want to be chased. Not just "looked at", no matter how shy a guy might be.