Oh boy...

[upandcoming]

I really feel bad for the next man who tries to approach me. I really, really do. I just wanted to tell someone that. I once really had this naive thought process about men, about what their good tendencies, etc...then I've slowly realized I can't be sweet to every man, I can't be good to them, because they'll take advantage of it.

I'm actually just devastated that I can never look at him again.

 

[daydreem2876]

I felt that way once... but time healed my wounds. But now, My standards are just much higher, I am more hip to the "game", and trust and love has to be earned, not given freely. And I have to believe there are men out there will rise to the challenge.

 

[JewelleNY]

Ha, I still feel this way, most men have some game or another going on these days erplexed

I am sorry you are now having to deal with whatever you are going through

 

[phynestone]

I really feel bad for the next man who tries to approach me. I really, really do. I just wanted to tell someone that. I once really had this naive thought process about men, about what their good tendencies, etc...then I've slowly realized I can't be sweet to every man, I can't be good to them, because they'll take advantage of it.

I'm actually just devastated that I can never look at him again.

You're human and learning...I am too. Not everyone has good intentions and I'm sorry you had to find out the hard way. I had to find out the hard way. You live and you learn. Best of luck to you and please know that there are nice guys out there. I may not have one in my life yet, but I know there are.