Oddest thing...Has God ever pulled one like this on you???

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BlackHairDiva

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OK, so lately I was thinking about my future. I'm 32 and I'm at that point where I'm thinking about starting a family...worrying about finding Mr.Right, etc.

I was trying to imagine the right man what I would want in a man. Plus since the beginning of the month I have been into Cristiano Ronaldo Vid's I wasen't a big fan of him but now it's going on me. Then out of the blue I decided to give it a go on a free online dating site. I have no pics my dating profile but I do have a detail description of my personality and what I'm looking for expecting in a man and in a relationship.

Out of the blue, I got a message from a person claiming I was what he was looking for. I question him down cold...a grueling 2 hour chat session no hole bars!! I questioned him down cold... He was dead on what I was looking for...all the way to what we like to eat. Family , finances, etc. We have a lot in common. It's stilll early and we are trying to get to know one another but....its just so odd how God does stuff.

The top it off, he is a soccer player( local league), and just like Ronaldo portuguese...and yes he sort looks like Rolando but more manly and taller :look:. He has nice body too.

Has anyone had something similar??? How did it turn out?

I mean I was just entertaining some ideas of what I would like to have and then Boom God beams him into my life. This man is serious too, looking for a wife, just bought a house and works for Goverment ( then again most folks do work in the government in my area).
 
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:lol: I don't have much to add, but Cristiano is kinda cute, I wouldn't kick him out of bed.

That's so amazing how it happened like that. I really hope this works out, keep us updated.
 
Nope, never had a similar experience, but I hope to one day! I'm also 32 and thinking a lot about my future lately as well.

I'm keeping my fingers crossed for ya!
 
I wish it were that easy for me. I hope he's the right one. I'm going to claim that he's "the one" for you!!! Keep us posted.:grin:
 
I don't know who Cristiano is but he sounds amazing. :look: I can't say I've had the same experience but good luck with this online dating site/new guy...
 
 
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I am happy and hopeful for you, girl, so don't take me to be a negative nancy when I say this: nope, it's never happened to me. However, there have been times when I thought that was the case and because I thought that was the case, I let my guard down and wasn't as prudent as I should have been. All that to say, give it time. You've only spoken to him on a free online dating sight, right? Be safe and get to know him first before you decide that God brought this man into your life.

ETA: Remember, you did put a detailed description of what you are looking for in a man in your profile. It would be very easy for someone to see that and just pretend to be who you want him to be. Again, I'm not saying that he's definitely only showing you his representative but please, be sure to go in with your ears and eyes wide open.
 
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I'm still taking my time and not jumping into conclusion. But I find it odd that there are so many coicidences:ohwell:.

I will question him in detail and see the type of person he is. I might see something that I'm not gonna like.
You never know.:look:



ackee walk said:
I am happy and hopeful for you, girl, so don't take me to be a negative nancy when I say this: nope, it's never happened to me. However, there have been times when I thought that was the case and because I thought that was the case, I let my guard down and wasn't as prudent as I should have been. All that to say, give it time. You've only spoken to him on a free online dating sight, right? Be safe and get to know him first before you decide that God brought this man into your life.

ETA: Remember, you did put a detailed description of what you are looking for in a man in your profile. It would be very easy for someone to see that and just pretend to be who you want him to be. Again, I'm not saying that he's definitely only showing you his representative but please, be sure to go in with your ears and eyes wide open.
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He must be quite a cutie if he looks like that soccer player!

That has never happened to me in that great detail. But it did kinda, sorta. A while ago, I was talking to my best friend about astrological signs. I'm a Virgo and was so interested in meeting a Capricorn man with such and such qualities. Fast forward a couple of weeks, and who did I meet at a friends bday party....a Capricorn with such and such qualities.

I was majorly stoked and felt like I was supposed to meet this guy, blahblahetc., God sent me to that party and all that jazz. Well we dated for a few months....and he was not what I was expecting. Silly me, because I was dead set on meeting that type of guy (I know a bit juvenile), and was sure that our paths were ordained to intersect by God, I overlooked obvious red flags when I was first getting to know him.

I'm not trying to be negative, I just know that type of feeling when we first meet someone, esp. if we feel that God is answering our prayers, and it's easy to get caught up in all of that.

Try proceed with both eyes wide open, and keep your feet on the ground. Wishing you luck!
 
I just say listen to your own voice right now. If you try to put divine elements to this man your judgment may be impaired. In time you will see what this guy is really all about. I've got to tell you the internet is full of masqueraders. Most men do not contact unless there is a picture which causes my eyebrow to raise. There are many guys that try to mold themselves into what they think you want. Their motives are quite different then what they present. Keep assessing him/ his actions over time. Time will separate the God sent good apples from the blinding red but poison apples.
 
Just remember that online dating processes goes much faster than face to face dates... pray and ask God for wisdom and meet in public. No going back to your place for a long time sister...
 
I feel like the odd one out. I asked God for what I wanted specifically. I asked for what I wanted in a man, his spirituality, and many other qualities. Six months later, I met him. Seven years later, I married him. A lot of people have their qualms about the amount of years/months of dating til engagement. I was 18 when we met, and I waited on God to move HIM to where we are now. BUT, in those 7 years I prayed and listened to God. I allowed Him to move in our relationship. No, our relationship is not perfect, but it is faith and Christian-based.

As stated in our premarital counseling, God gave us two ears, two eyes, and one mouth for a reason. Listen and be watchful. Be slow to speak and swift to hear. Allow Him to guide you.
 
This hasn't happened to me in the relationship arena, but it has happened in other areas of my life :yep:. You were ready for what you were seeking so it appeared (akin to, "when the student is ready, the teacher will appear.") Keep thinking positive and go with the flow.
 
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I just say listen to your own voice right now. If you try to put divine elements to this man your judgment may be impaired. In time you will see what this guy is really all about. I've got to tell you the internet is full of masqueraders. Most men do not contact unless there is a picture which causes my eyebrow to raise. There are many guys that try to mold themselves into what they think you want. Their motives are quite different then what they present. Keep assessing him/ his actions over time. Time will separate the God sent good apples from the blinding red but poison apples.
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I don't know if this is relevant but he also didn't have a picture. He sent me his picture first. I'm not jumping to conclusions, but I'm taking my time with this man. Trying to get to know him more.
 
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