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Ladies I've been talking via PMs to this guy I met online for a month than we moved to emails. He seems like a cool guy. He's given me his phone number but I haven't called it yet. He's currently studying (masters), and has a job. Anyways the convo is cool, and he's nice from what I can tell. I know he's busy right now so I'm not stressing meeting him.
However I don't want to continue making the same mistakes. I would like for us to meet next year January, continue the nice flow,and for it to lead somewhere. But I feel like this is the breakpoint.
(sorry for breaking the LOA rule with the negatives...but)
I don't want to fall into the habit, and be taken for granted. I don't want to be his friend that he's cool with. I don't want this to just be a now thing only to die down later. Nor do I want a sex thing.
As you can see I want for it to develope into more. So being that the breaking point is close, how should I proceed?
I'm a believer in actions and vibes being the reason why certain things don't work. So if all the ladies in a relationship or those that have been can come and give a sister some pointers, I would appreciate it.
I want to give the correct vibe so he can pick up and steer this into a good positive outcome for both of us.
However I don't want to continue making the same mistakes. I would like for us to meet next year January, continue the nice flow,and for it to lead somewhere. But I feel like this is the breakpoint.
(sorry for breaking the LOA rule with the negatives...but)
I don't want to fall into the habit, and be taken for granted. I don't want to be his friend that he's cool with. I don't want this to just be a now thing only to die down later. Nor do I want a sex thing.
As you can see I want for it to develope into more. So being that the breaking point is close, how should I proceed?
I'm a believer in actions and vibes being the reason why certain things don't work. So if all the ladies in a relationship or those that have been can come and give a sister some pointers, I would appreciate it.
I want to give the correct vibe so he can pick up and steer this into a good positive outcome for both of us.