Lissa0821
Well-Known Member
I have been spending time with my ex-boyfriend as we are trying to give our relationship another go. But I have found out some distrubing news that really gave me confirmation of what I was sensing about one of my best female friends.
Last year he started a new job in the same building as one of my best friends who has known about our relationship since day one. Well, when he told me where he worked, I laughed and called my female friend to tell her. She asked me what he looked like and I described him not really thinking anymore about it. When the very next day, she approached and introduced herself, he immediately called me to let me know she had stepped to him. I was little surprised she would be so bold but I didn't think twice about.
From the day she met him until now in every conversation that we have she would find a way to bring him up so I got the vibe that she found him attractive. I didn't want to think she would come on to him so I just brushed it off. Plus, knowing the kind of man he is, he would never get involved with her.
Well we hung out last night and I mentioned that I think my friend is attracted to him. He looked at me and said I didn't want to say anything because I know how you feel about her but she was hitting on me big time. He said it got to the point he would go out of his way to avoid her within the building. He and one of his co-workers called it "Operation Blackie", where his co-worker would be let him know if it was safe to go into the cafteria area if my friend wasn't around. He let me know in no uncertain terms that if we have to attend a function and she is there he will not go cause he thought her behavior was foul.
Now, I love my friend but I seen her in action when she goes after a man, even if the man is married. She does know how I feel about her behavior and over the years I just make sure not to bring anyone I am seeing around her.
Now how do I deal with her????
Last year he started a new job in the same building as one of my best friends who has known about our relationship since day one. Well, when he told me where he worked, I laughed and called my female friend to tell her. She asked me what he looked like and I described him not really thinking anymore about it. When the very next day, she approached and introduced herself, he immediately called me to let me know she had stepped to him. I was little surprised she would be so bold but I didn't think twice about.
From the day she met him until now in every conversation that we have she would find a way to bring him up so I got the vibe that she found him attractive. I didn't want to think she would come on to him so I just brushed it off. Plus, knowing the kind of man he is, he would never get involved with her.
Well we hung out last night and I mentioned that I think my friend is attracted to him. He looked at me and said I didn't want to say anything because I know how you feel about her but she was hitting on me big time. He said it got to the point he would go out of his way to avoid her within the building. He and one of his co-workers called it "Operation Blackie", where his co-worker would be let him know if it was safe to go into the cafteria area if my friend wasn't around. He let me know in no uncertain terms that if we have to attend a function and she is there he will not go cause he thought her behavior was foul.
Now, I love my friend but I seen her in action when she goes after a man, even if the man is married. She does know how I feel about her behavior and over the years I just make sure not to bring anyone I am seeing around her.
Now how do I deal with her????