SimpleKomplexity
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When I come home I want to spend time with my friends I've left behind since highs chool. I usually call them up, and tell them we should hang out, but it never happens. Then they facebook and tell me, "So sorry I didn't get to see you while u were here. Miss you a lot. We'll hook up nxt time."
So they kinda said in so many words if I were to actually plan something we'd have fun. So I planned everything. I told them where we would go, when, and what we'd do afterwards. I set out this weekend to just chill with my girls before I had to leave for school and catch up with friends. 4pm comes around and no one calls. I call them and no one answers. I get a txt @ 6....one of them had "fallen asleep".
Needless to say, I never got to go out. It kinda hurts because all I wanna do is show them I still care, and even though I go to school 3 hrs away, they are still friends of mine and always have a place in my heart. But they may not think the same. They have SO, jobs, and lives that don't include me even for a weekend
I feel stuck in the same rut. I'm not close friends with any of the people I used to be really close to. My best friend is a freshman at the college. I never thought of it, until someone asked me why do I have so many freshman friends when I am a junior or pratically senior? I do not know... But it seems like I have stepping stone friends, not long lasting ones. Mose of them I stay very close to for a few years, and after 1-2 yrs we drift apart and move on to another.
It's kinda frusrating. Do you ladies go through this also? Are you still cool with many of the peole you go/went to high school or college with?
So they kinda said in so many words if I were to actually plan something we'd have fun. So I planned everything. I told them where we would go, when, and what we'd do afterwards. I set out this weekend to just chill with my girls before I had to leave for school and catch up with friends. 4pm comes around and no one calls. I call them and no one answers. I get a txt @ 6....one of them had "fallen asleep".
Needless to say, I never got to go out. It kinda hurts because all I wanna do is show them I still care, and even though I go to school 3 hrs away, they are still friends of mine and always have a place in my heart. But they may not think the same. They have SO, jobs, and lives that don't include me even for a weekend
I feel stuck in the same rut. I'm not close friends with any of the people I used to be really close to. My best friend is a freshman at the college. I never thought of it, until someone asked me why do I have so many freshman friends when I am a junior or pratically senior? I do not know... But it seems like I have stepping stone friends, not long lasting ones. Mose of them I stay very close to for a few years, and after 1-2 yrs we drift apart and move on to another.
It's kinda frusrating. Do you ladies go through this also? Are you still cool with many of the peole you go/went to high school or college with?