yep, my hairdresser used the silken seal on my hair before flat ironing and it came out looking like the box of a perm! Next time I get it done Im posting pics...
I know what u are talking about, its hard to find the right balance of products, bc if I use too little my hair style lasts till I get out the door and then it gets windswept, and if I use to much its stiff without the swing or body! aghhh....