So I was having this discussion with my bf and this is what he said. He didn't say it exactly like this, but I recognize it as a variant of the "nice guys finish last" idea. He was saying that if you have to choose between only the two, you'll get more women choosing to be an @$$ over being weak. That women have no problem leaving a sweet guy, but they need counseling to leave men who treat them badly, verbally or physically abuse them, etc.
Has this been your experience? Do you recognize this in yourselves? Looking back at your break ups, was it hardest to leave those who treated you the worst?
Has this been your experience? Do you recognize this in yourselves? Looking back at your break ups, was it hardest to leave those who treated you the worst?