AllTooWell
New Member
Hi I am new and desperately need help! I am hair illiterate even though I've been reading the threads for a while.
I have 4c hair. I have used relaxers all my life and my hair never really got longer than a bit past my shoulder. Until October 2009 when I started wearing weaves. I took my weave out in April 2010 and it was bra strap length (it really grew well under the weave!) and then I relaxed my hair.
^my hair right out of the weave
the back
pressed
^relaxed
But then it started breaking and got super short like ear length... So I went back to weaves in August 2011. I am about to move to North Carolina and I won't have my trusted hair girl with me (she is actually pretty cheap compared to everyone else) and so I am thinking of not doing weaves anymore. I'm not sure what to do with my hair now. Should I
go natural and just get my hair pressed every few weeks
"heat train" my hair by myself?
relax my hair?
suck it up and keep doing weaves?
the Aveda SmoothInfusion Retuxturizing system? (the website says "Permanently straighten your hair with Aveda’s versatile hair retexturizing system that straightens, softens and smooths the hair with thermal processing. Organic ylang ylang will nourish the senses, while organic oils leave the hair soft, shiny and incredibly smooth. Ideal for guests with wavy to highly textured hair who want to smooth their hair texture or permanently straighten it.")
or some other option I haven't thought of?
I am starting an intense master's program so I won't have time to do anything time intensive (like growing it naturally and keeping it curly). I don't want to lose any length and I am pretty sure my hair is brastrap length again and I want it even longer.
Thank you for helping me! You guys are amazing!
I have 4c hair. I have used relaxers all my life and my hair never really got longer than a bit past my shoulder. Until October 2009 when I started wearing weaves. I took my weave out in April 2010 and it was bra strap length (it really grew well under the weave!) and then I relaxed my hair.

^my hair right out of the weave

the back

pressed

^relaxed
But then it started breaking and got super short like ear length... So I went back to weaves in August 2011. I am about to move to North Carolina and I won't have my trusted hair girl with me (she is actually pretty cheap compared to everyone else) and so I am thinking of not doing weaves anymore. I'm not sure what to do with my hair now. Should I
go natural and just get my hair pressed every few weeks
"heat train" my hair by myself?
relax my hair?
suck it up and keep doing weaves?
the Aveda SmoothInfusion Retuxturizing system? (the website says "Permanently straighten your hair with Aveda’s versatile hair retexturizing system that straightens, softens and smooths the hair with thermal processing. Organic ylang ylang will nourish the senses, while organic oils leave the hair soft, shiny and incredibly smooth. Ideal for guests with wavy to highly textured hair who want to smooth their hair texture or permanently straighten it.")
or some other option I haven't thought of?
I am starting an intense master's program so I won't have time to do anything time intensive (like growing it naturally and keeping it curly). I don't want to lose any length and I am pretty sure my hair is brastrap length again and I want it even longer.
Thank you for helping me! You guys are amazing!