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okay so i been lurking this site for almost a year and i finally broke down and decided to join because i just don't know what to do any more. Thank You everybody for all the inspiration...
I believe i am 4a/4b or maybe just 4a i'm not sure, but anyway i been struggling with wanting hair since i was younger. i've never had long hair and my hair is very fine and thin...i hate wearing my hair with out some type of fake hair. i am 18 and i wear wigs, i don't see anything wrong with it, but my mom says i'm too young to be wearing wigs and i'm always praying that nobody accidentially knocks it off and i take it off infront of my boyfriend,and he says he doesn't care, but i don't want him to look at me and stop finding me unattractive. i wish i had my own pretty thick long hair. i'll say it i'm obsessed with hair because i won't my own so badly. and it's hard typing this message cuz i just want to cry...i just want to give up.
anyway so i got a relaxer in may 2006 because my hair was so heat damaged that it might as while had been relaxed, and i was doin well with it til i got another one in august2006. i thought i did good with strenghing, but after my touch up my hair just got thinner and was not working which proved to be i'm just not suppose to have relaxed hair because when i got one when i was little my hair fell outerplexed
so now i am transitioning and i have been now for five months and i just don't know what to do with my hair...i want to bc but i'm scared because my hair will be so short (like an inch) and i'm not sure if i would feel pretty anymore...i don't know if my boyfriend will find me attractive...i don't know what the kids at school would say...my friends, my family....i just know i need to do something, because i really don't want to rely on weave for the rest of my life!!!!! i told myself i'll take the next two years to grow my hair out before i start using heat again, but i just don't know what to do. I WANT HAIR SO BAD THAT IT IS TAKING OVER MY LIFE!!!!
i just want to feel comfortable in my own skin and feel attractive and have my own hair. HELP ME PLEASE....HELP ME.....
I believe i am 4a/4b or maybe just 4a i'm not sure, but anyway i been struggling with wanting hair since i was younger. i've never had long hair and my hair is very fine and thin...i hate wearing my hair with out some type of fake hair. i am 18 and i wear wigs, i don't see anything wrong with it, but my mom says i'm too young to be wearing wigs and i'm always praying that nobody accidentially knocks it off and i take it off infront of my boyfriend,and he says he doesn't care, but i don't want him to look at me and stop finding me unattractive. i wish i had my own pretty thick long hair. i'll say it i'm obsessed with hair because i won't my own so badly. and it's hard typing this message cuz i just want to cry...i just want to give up.
anyway so i got a relaxer in may 2006 because my hair was so heat damaged that it might as while had been relaxed, and i was doin well with it til i got another one in august2006. i thought i did good with strenghing, but after my touch up my hair just got thinner and was not working which proved to be i'm just not suppose to have relaxed hair because when i got one when i was little my hair fell outerplexed
so now i am transitioning and i have been now for five months and i just don't know what to do with my hair...i want to bc but i'm scared because my hair will be so short (like an inch) and i'm not sure if i would feel pretty anymore...i don't know if my boyfriend will find me attractive...i don't know what the kids at school would say...my friends, my family....i just know i need to do something, because i really don't want to rely on weave for the rest of my life!!!!! i told myself i'll take the next two years to grow my hair out before i start using heat again, but i just don't know what to do. I WANT HAIR SO BAD THAT IT IS TAKING OVER MY LIFE!!!!
i just want to feel comfortable in my own skin and feel attractive and have my own hair. HELP ME PLEASE....HELP ME.....