New *2010* Transitioners Support Thread!

I'm wondering if I want to continue transitioning in braids for the rest of the year. Now that I'm starting to see progress (growth and retention), I'm thinking about wanting to wear my hair out more. I still don't plan to chop anytime soon.

Keep up the good work everyone!
 
I had a weak moment today and thoughts of relaxing entered. I had to remind myself why I started this journey. I'm just frustrated, I've started working out and can't stand sweaty hair. But I don't want to co-wash that often because my hair is so short and there isn't much that I can do with it and i absolutely hate wearing a wig. I have 16 weeks of super thick growth and no idea what to do with it at the moment. Oh well, building a bridge and getting over it. Tomorrow's a new day.
 
I BC'ed today and started a thread. You guys I was SHOCKED at how thick my hair was under the relaxed hair! Shrinkage is a beast.... In two weeks I will have 6 months of growth. I'm glad that I did this when I did, I'm in the process of learning my hair. I will begin a low to no manipulation reggie but I wanted to leave it out for a week or two just to say hello. :lol:
 
Rock your hair :yep:
I'm wondering if I want to continue transitioning in braids for the rest of the year. Now that I'm starting to see progress (growth and retention), I'm thinking about wanting to wear my hair out more. I still don't plan to chop anytime soon.

Keep up the good work everyone!

Congrats on getting to 1 year!!!! You've already done better than your last transition :yep:
Let's know what you decide to do.
i'm washing my hair tomorrow. i have no idea if i will bc or not. it depends on how well i can handle my hair. ♥

:congrats:
I BC'ed today and started a thread. You guys I was SHOCKED at how thick my hair was under the relaxed hair! Shrinkage is a beast.... In two weeks I will have 6 months of growth. I'm glad that I did this when I did, I'm in the process of learning my hair. I will begin a low to no manipulation reggie but I wanted to leave it out for a week or two just to say hello. :lol:
 
Thanks GrandPrix!!!!
I washed it on Monday and I'm soooo happy I had no heat damage, I was so worried :grin:
How're you? How's your hair now?

I start with the back and bring it over to my chest on either side and trim it in a straight horizontal line to make sure it's the same length (this maintains my natural v-shape).
Then I do the front, which I can see in the mirror and pull it down towards my face and also upwards to take a good look at the state of my ends before I trim. For the middle, I rely on the mirror and pull each section outwards in the same direction to maintain an even enough look..

Does that help? I hope so.

MG, your hair looks so nice in that banana clip! Your hair looks so lush and healthy, even when straightened.

Question though, how do you self trim?
I wish I could master it so I never have to go to a stylist again!
 
:lachen:

I clarified...
Then deep conditioned with one egg, EVOO, Coconut Oil and Aphogee 2 min reconstructor for an hour. Rinsed out...
Then deep conditioned with ORS Replenishing Con and EVOO for another hour.

I did all this to make sure I had no heat damage :lol:

My hair's fine :yay: I was sooo happy to feel all the coils (I recorded a video which I'll edit and upload on my youtube channel - of me checking my hair was back to normal :lol:) It feels very soft and fluffy and it's obviously because it's *very* clean because I haven't clarified in a long long time.

My hair's in a ponytail (ends tucked under) today and I'll do a few cornrows tonight and leave them in for the rest of the week.

I'm not putting my hair back in pixie braids until next weekend cos I want it curly for a photoshoot and also a video for a fitness company I semi-work for.
 
Hi ladies, just checking in, I'm 8 months post and still going strong. I'm currently weaved up, it's been in for 3 months and I'm pushing for at least 2.5 months.
 
Thanks GrandPrix!!!!
I washed it on Monday and I'm soooo happy I had no heat damage, I was so worried :grin:
How're you? How's your hair now?

I start with the back and bring it over to my chest on either side and trim it in a straight horizontal line to make sure it's the same length (this maintains my natural v-shape).
Then I do the front, which I can see in the mirror and pull it down towards my face and also upwards to take a good look at the state of my ends before I trim. For the middle, I rely on the mirror and pull each section outwards in the same direction to maintain an even enough look..

Does that help? I hope so.

Sounds clear enough.. Thanks! I hope I'll have the guts to snip at my own hair. :lol:
My hair is cut straight across, though. A U-shape at most since my last trim. I believe Traycee did a youtube vid on self trimming some time ago, but her hair is also V-shaped, so again, I was too chicken. I really do like the shape though.. and if this is an easy way to maintain it..

That would mean I'd have to straighten again, and I've been telling myself I would for the past 3 weeks. It's just that cowashing is so goood.

The reason I want to straighten is that my hair has become such a handful in the morning.
Washing, detangling etc. is still going great for me, but when I take out my bantu knots in the morning.. :nono:
I will have this huge mass of kink and curl that is my hair (perfectly conditioned and tangle free though :lachen:) and it will take me a full 10 minutes just to pull it back into a bun or ponytail because I have to be so careful with it with the amount of ng I have now. If I hurry I'll only pull at it (breakage) and I'll make it all frizzy and mess up the set.
It's like my ng is rising up into the air (!), making it impossible for my ends to hold a good frizz free curl.
Ahh how I miss those 5 months post days. All the curly styles coming out great and you're just loving the fullness. Good times.


..I've been denying it for some time (*maybe if I DC and close my eyes long enough, it'll go awayy*), but I think I might have heat damage from my salon visit.
I've had this patch of hair that's been ridiculously loose from the start, at the crown and further to the front, but now it's turned into frizzy waves with no curl. :ohwell:
It starts at the roots and the waves are uniform all the way down. Somebody, please tell me it's my relaxed hair weighing it down and it'll pop once I cut?
 
going on 48-49 weeks post my goodness I was suppose to get my hair done in kinky twists on Saturday but I am snowed in. I am hoping for Friday to get it done if not then on to plan B I can wear my wig going out for V Day, today is my wash day, so I will just style up my natural/transitioning hair.
 
Checking in! I will be 19 wks post tomorrow. I am experiencing some breakage in the back and a lil in the front since taking out my micros. I am trying to be stong. I have just been braiding my hair under my wig.
 
I've been working on a new regimen that I'm basically loving.

Mornings:
Mist hair (and by mist I basically mean drench, lol) with my mix of Suave Naturals Conditioner, Knot Today, aloe vera gel, and water
Detangle with seamless wide tooth comb in four sections
Damp Bun

Nights:
Take bun down
Oil scalp with Castor Oil Pomade
Moisturize with shea butter
Seal with olive/castor oil
Put hair in two twists and pin

I still have my usual wash day routine of protein prepoo, cowash, deep condition. This new routine is kind of like a modified cowash so it provides me with the lasting moisture without the tangles of 16 month post hair! :yay:
 
Checking in. I am 11 months post. I just did a light trim yesterday and my hair is doing well. Currently wearing my hair flatiron but I want to go back into a weave soon.
 
i did the bc today yal. my relaxed ends were so tangled and knotted, and in my attempt to detangle, i ripped out so many huge knots and could see the ends breaking, so i decided to bc. i slathered condish on my dry hair, let my natural hair curl up, then snipped off the relaxed ends. here is the first section. ♥

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i did the bc today yal. my relaxed ends were so tangled and knotted, and in my attempt to detangle, i ripped out so many huge knots and could see the ends breaking, so i decided to bc. i slathered condish on my dry hair, let my natural hair curl up, then snipped off the relaxed ends. here is the first section. ♥

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omg congrats!! I'm loving it so far! Can't wait for more pics
 
:congrats: vainღ♥♡jane!!!!
You have sooooo much more new growth than the last time you BC'd, you'll definitely be happier this time round :yep:

I want to see more pictures! You know I've always been a fan of your hair!
 
:hiya: I'd say - don't worry too much about it :yep:

Just keep DC'ing and don't straighten for a little while longer... take extra care of that area and make sure when next you want to straighten, you do it yourself or stay away from that salon.

:bighug:
..I've been denying it for some time (*maybe if I DC and close my eyes long enough, it'll go awayy*), but I think I might have heat damage from my salon visit.
I've had this patch of hair that's been ridiculously loose from the start, at the crown and further to the front, but now it's turned into frizzy waves with no curl. :ohwell:
It starts at the roots and the waves are uniform all the way down. Somebody, please tell me it's my relaxed hair weighing it down and it'll pop once I cut?
 
:drunk:

Someone who's my hair twin (or sister) and whose last relaxer was a day away from mine BC'd earlier this month :spinning:

Now, I'm wondering what my hair will look like if I BC'd earlier than 20 months (Like... May/June - 17/18 months)

But I'm reminding myself why I chose to transition for longer:
1. I need more length (I plan to do twists and pixie braids when I'm natural and I want them to be able to fit into a ponytail)
2. I'm having no problems with my transition...

BTW, I have a new youtube video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LNcFEdV4dj4
 
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:drunk:

Someone who's my hair twin (or sister) and whose last relaxer was a day away from mine BC'd earlier this month :spinning:

Now, I'm wondering what my hair will look like if I BC'd earlier than 20 months (Like... May/June - 17/18 months)

But I'm reminding myself why I chose to transition for longer:
1. I need more length (I plan to do twists and pixie braids when I'm natural and I want them to be able to fit into a ponytail)
2. I'm having no problems with my transition...

BTW, I have a new youtube video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LNcFEdV4dj4

MummysGirl, you got a plan and know that sticking with it will make you more happy then getting suck into everyone's else. We can get sucked into alot of things here but when it comes to making decision on a permanent change like cut or relaxer don't do it because you can't get it back.

Oh by the way nothing yet on styling twist/braidout sucks on my hair:nono:
 
i did the bc today yal. my relaxed ends were so tangled and knotted, and in my attempt to detangle, i ripped out so many huge knots and could see the ends breaking, so i decided to bc. i slathered condish on my dry hair, let my natural hair curl up, then snipped off the relaxed ends. here is the first section. ♥

2isi6g4.jpg

11tu7q0.jpg
Congratulations, I know you are happy this time around:grin:
 
i did the bc today yal. my relaxed ends were so tangled and knotted, and in my attempt to detangle, i ripped out so many huge knots and could see the ends breaking, so i decided to bc. i slathered condish on my dry hair, let my natural hair curl up, then snipped off the relaxed ends. here is the first section. ♥

2isi6g4.jpg

11tu7q0.jpg


:clapping::wow:Your hair looks great!! Congrats on your BC!!
 
I'm still hanging in there, rocking twist outs and braid outs this week. Next week I'll prob. flat-iron idk yet. Haven't relaxed since early Sept. 09 and I'm going to transition without bc'ing.
 
i did the bc today yal. my relaxed ends were so tangled and knotted, and in my attempt to detangle, i ripped out so many huge knots and could see the ends breaking, so i decided to bc. i slathered condish on my dry hair, let my natural hair curl up, then snipped off the relaxed ends. here is the first section. ♥

2isi6g4.jpg

11tu7q0.jpg


I love it!! CONGRATULATIONS!!!!
 
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