okay background: sorta shy, but totally coming out of it.
whenever a guy approaches me wanting to hang out, i always get excited thinking im about to have my first nongay guy friend. then they start liking me or throwing signals my way, or trying to kiss me and i get sooo uncomfortable..especially since i am usually not attracted to them in that way.
my friend has tons of straight guy friends (she is attractive btw, as am I). what could i be doing wrong? i never usually reciprocate flirting and i always try to be as nonsexual towards them as possible.
meanwhile, i gets no love from guys i like and am attracted to.
i always have the urge to have the 'im not looking for a boyfriend talk (even though i am lol) with them in the beginning, but i hate to assume that these guys will develop feelings for me and i want to keep it as platonic as possible (treating them as i would a female friend)
whenever a guy approaches me wanting to hang out, i always get excited thinking im about to have my first nongay guy friend. then they start liking me or throwing signals my way, or trying to kiss me and i get sooo uncomfortable..especially since i am usually not attracted to them in that way.
my friend has tons of straight guy friends (she is attractive btw, as am I). what could i be doing wrong? i never usually reciprocate flirting and i always try to be as nonsexual towards them as possible.
meanwhile, i gets no love from guys i like and am attracted to.
i always have the urge to have the 'im not looking for a boyfriend talk (even though i am lol) with them in the beginning, but i hate to assume that these guys will develop feelings for me and i want to keep it as platonic as possible (treating them as i would a female friend)