thought i was the onl one...gurlie my boyfriend walks around calling me Celie all the timeFirst off wow! I saw your hair in the other post and it is gawjuss!
The only time I sleep with loose hair is if I am in a zombie like stupor and can't move my arms to put my hair in braids, twists, or cornrows. This is a big rarity for me and the result is dry, flat, tangled, knotty no-no hair. By sleeping "cute" do you mean sleeping in a style like a puff or something?
If that's the case, I never sleep cute..good thing I'm single, I have to look like Celie at nighttime in order for my hair to be good.
I'm a wash'n'go gal during the week for the most part. Now, I just throw on a silk scarf "flat" on my head, then fluff and go in the morning. Previously, I didn't sleep with a scarf, but I do have silk pillowcases. I would get some flattening, but in the morning, I would spritz, fluff and go.
For me, the key is silk scarves and pillow cases. I cannot sleep with a bonnet on my head...the elastic bothers me even if it isn't tight. Cotton and other materials zap the moisture out of my hair...so when I fluff, I end up with dry craziness and the fluff just doesn't work the same.
If you have THICK, natural hair, you are going to definitely get some degree of flatness. Just comes with the territory.