Naked Twister
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dancinstallion
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Corny no, freaky yes.
Not my guy. But a recent guy friend.
Why do you say it like that
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Crackers Phinn
Either A Blessing Or A Lesson.
Nope.
Well....it depends on the type of relationship you want in the long term. I think it would change the dynamic of what you have now to a FB situation. Let him make the moves, you play coy and enjoy your dirty fantasies until later.
Why do you say it like that
But that's exactly what I want, though
I just need a nice lay for right now, no relationship status. I've been on a celibacy journey for exactly a year now. And that friend checks all the right boxes for what I need in a FWB.
Damaris.Elle
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No to the naked twister.
If you want to have sex with him and that's all you want, just tell him
. He'll either be with it or he won't be.
If you want to have sex with him and that's all you want, just tell him
. He'll either be with it or he won't be.Oh, then carry on! Naked twister will let him know that you're fun and quirky. 
So what's apropos these days...do y'all go get checked out together at the clinic for STIs or are you just gonna wing-it with condoms?
So what's apropos these days...do y'all go get checked out together at the clinic for STIs or are you just gonna wing-it with condoms?
But that's exactly what I want, though
I've been on a celibacy journey for exactly a year now. And that friend checks all the right boxes for what I need in a FWB.
awhyley
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How recent? (You don't want to scare him off.)
Does it appear that he would accept your offer?
hunnychile
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Do you actually mean naked twister or is that a euphemism.
Either way you should go for it.
Either way you should go for it.
Theresamonet
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Damaris.Elle
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I thought she actually meant naked twister.....
Within the last month.
Black Ambrosia
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Transformer
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Why not twister without being naked. You’ll probably lose the clothes any way as part of foreplay. That way he can signal his agreement and actual think the sex part is his smooth moves.
Way too soon.
Do you know mutual friends or family? How can you be sure he's sane?
Can you recycle a FWB?
I just moved so I’m just now making all new friends here. Trust, if I could use a friend from back home I would
awhyley
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I concur.
Besides, the last thing you need/want is someone looking for a sponsor in cuffing season.
Theresamonet
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I’m interested in how this plays out. I can’t see myself going to get tested because someone I met a few weeks ago wants to have sex with me. And then I’m sure he’ll try to get out of wearing the condom because you’re both “clean”. I’m not a casual sex person, so this seems like a lot of work/figuring things out for someone you’re not even with.
Y’all this may be TMI...
But I feel like a dog I heat. I’ve been focusing on school, finished that. Check. Focusing on work, moved departments, and working towards a promotion. Check. Moved into my own place with my own car, and transitioned to a new city and state. Check. I’ve been a cat momma for 5 months now and love that bond we have.
But My mind cannot stop thinking about male companionship and sex. It’s been a full year since my last relationship and I’m still not ready for that. I just want a lay. I’m just trying to do this is a clean messy free way. I’ve only had one guy refuse to wear a condom and that just never went anywhere. So I’m not worried about that.
But I feel like a dog I heat. I’ve been focusing on school, finished that. Check. Focusing on work, moved departments, and working towards a promotion. Check. Moved into my own place with my own car, and transitioned to a new city and state. Check. I’ve been a cat momma for 5 months now and love that bond we have.
But My mind cannot stop thinking about male companionship and sex. It’s been a full year since my last relationship and I’m still not ready for that. I just want a lay. I’m just trying to do this is a clean messy free way. I’ve only had one guy refuse to wear a condom and that just never went anywhere. So I’m not worried about that.
Black Ambrosia
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Do you have to see him after? It could be awkward if you're co-workers or live in the same complex. If everything is cool then it's a non issue but if it's not you don't want to put yourself in a difficult situation. Otherwise, be safe and have fun.
lavaflow99
In search of the next vacation
Do people actually do this, I mean go get tested together? I've been out of the game way too long and just curious what the rules are in these dating streets...
weaveadiva
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@theRaven Girl, are you me? 
I have been on fuego for about the last six months or so. It hit me outta the blue. I've done all the freaking work I need to do on myself. Right now I just need a hard, warm body to hit it right.
I have been on fuego for about the last six months or so. It hit me outta the blue. I've done all the freaking work I need to do on myself. Right now I just need a hard, warm body to hit it right.This was the plan with the last guy I kicked it with. We discussed testing on the first date. I'll admit I don't think it's common, though.
Casual sex doesn't have to mean irresponsible sex. It's not weird or too much to get tested together. It's responsible and let's you have your fun without headaches. If I know we're both clean and we're using condoms and/or I'm on BC then I don't have a thing to worry about and can relax.
Hope everything works out for you @theRaven
Hope everything works out for you @theRaven
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