Yes Girl she is a MESS! I was going to take pics of her sister's hair too but she had pony tails and my sister doesn't leave her hair out all the time so you can't really see the texture and length.
My sister just washes her hair and she moisturizes it with something in a white bottle (I have to ask her what it is). She has her hair in cornrows 80% of the time though. So I guess that means protective styling.