danniegirl
Well-Known Member
To each is they own i usually say
except when she said:
1. We are on a healthy life journey and you want as many people to join us anyway.
2. I use to be bigger then this i cant really discriminate
3. what do you really think
Back story
she-40yo friend that doesnt date much older kids and is successful. she is relatively healthy and takes seasonal gym classes and works out occasionally. she actually lost about 50 pounds within the last two years mostly from diet change and fasting.
He -42yo divorced handsome Successful, Published Author, turned Chef, Turned Restaurateur funny type of obese man
What do you really think is the question that has me up in arms i know him and he is funny and sweet and handsome but he is long past being a big guy he is morbidly obese he has to weight over 350 pounds.
like wtf im not afraid for her or anything i am just concerned she is trying to overlook his weight or worse change who he already is for her own sake if he wants to change then so be it but she cant change him and he wont do it for her.
I introduced them and saw them in action already we brought fruit salads to the cook out he brought fried foods we played volley ball he sat and watched we danced while he told jokes and laughed. the only thing he did with us was play cards but we played and talked mess while he ate and played and the amount of food he ate was ridiculous.
SO what do i say to her
except when she said:
1. We are on a healthy life journey and you want as many people to join us anyway.
2. I use to be bigger then this i cant really discriminate
3. what do you really think
Back story
she-40yo friend that doesnt date much older kids and is successful. she is relatively healthy and takes seasonal gym classes and works out occasionally. she actually lost about 50 pounds within the last two years mostly from diet change and fasting.
He -42yo divorced handsome Successful, Published Author, turned Chef, Turned Restaurateur funny type of obese man
What do you really think is the question that has me up in arms i know him and he is funny and sweet and handsome but he is long past being a big guy he is morbidly obese he has to weight over 350 pounds.
like wtf im not afraid for her or anything i am just concerned she is trying to overlook his weight or worse change who he already is for her own sake if he wants to change then so be it but she cant change him and he wont do it for her.
I introduced them and saw them in action already we brought fruit salads to the cook out he brought fried foods we played volley ball he sat and watched we danced while he told jokes and laughed. the only thing he did with us was play cards but we played and talked mess while he ate and played and the amount of food he ate was ridiculous.
SO what do i say to her
about her relationship in the future.
erplexed
