Hairsnob
Deep Thinker
I can’t share too many details but the 50 yr old is just a friend who wanted to talk about a decision he was about to make.
50 yr old man – no kids – wants kids – kinda high profile job in the entertainment industry – He looks no older than 40 though.
26 yr old female – no kids – just graduated from college – not sure what she does but friend mentioned she can sing well
They’ve known each other for about 2yrs but only dated as of recent months. He’s thinking of getting serious with her because he wants kids really bad. Yes, men have ticking clocks also. But he is unsure if she’s “ready” or if it’s the right thing to do because of her age… doesn’t want to rob her of anything.
It was hard to hold my tongue on what I REALLY wanted to say but I basically just asked if he felt they had a lot in common. He said yes, she’s more mature than the normal woman her age. I really wanted to say YOU ARE OLD ENOUGH TO BE HER FATHER!!! but I didn't.![Nono :nono: :nono:](/smilies/nono.gif)
I asked why he waited so long to decide to have kids and he said because of his job he never had time. That's no excuse but if that's what he says... So I kinda understand why he needs to date a younger woman but I asked why not date a woman in her 30’s or 40’s at least who are much closer to his age?? He said because they’re not as in shape and BORING!!! He corrected himself and said I was an exception after I said a big EXXCUUUUUUSE ME???!!! (referring to me not being boring or out of shape) LOL
Seriously though, the thing I really wanted to tell him is that when I was 26 I couldn’t imagine dating a 50 yr old. Heck, I can't even imagine it now LOL. But that’s just me. I REALLY wanted to hint about whether she had a motive because she sings but I didn't bring it up. He’s no producer or anything like that but he just knows a lot of people. I told him that he knows in his heart and she knows if they're ready for that and he kind of looked like that answer didn't help him. Heck, I don't even know what that means but I didn't know what to say.![Look :look: :look:](/smilies/look.gif)
Anyway, what’s your advice to this guy friend??? I don’t want this thread to get into whether or not he’s too old to have a child because that’s a different topic. I would never give him advice to leave or stay because it’s up to them both but he really sounded like he was confused. Of course I have no idea how SHE feels about it because it’s only his one-sided story.
Have any of you dated someone that much older than you and care to share your experiences or give advice for him? It was funny that the pic of Rocsi and Eddie Murphy came out and I thought about him![Grin :grin: :grin:](/smilies/grin.gif)
50 yr old man – no kids – wants kids – kinda high profile job in the entertainment industry – He looks no older than 40 though.
26 yr old female – no kids – just graduated from college – not sure what she does but friend mentioned she can sing well
They’ve known each other for about 2yrs but only dated as of recent months. He’s thinking of getting serious with her because he wants kids really bad. Yes, men have ticking clocks also. But he is unsure if she’s “ready” or if it’s the right thing to do because of her age… doesn’t want to rob her of anything.
It was hard to hold my tongue on what I REALLY wanted to say but I basically just asked if he felt they had a lot in common. He said yes, she’s more mature than the normal woman her age. I really wanted to say YOU ARE OLD ENOUGH TO BE HER FATHER!!! but I didn't.
![Nono :nono: :nono:](/smilies/nono.gif)
I asked why he waited so long to decide to have kids and he said because of his job he never had time. That's no excuse but if that's what he says... So I kinda understand why he needs to date a younger woman but I asked why not date a woman in her 30’s or 40’s at least who are much closer to his age?? He said because they’re not as in shape and BORING!!! He corrected himself and said I was an exception after I said a big EXXCUUUUUUSE ME???!!! (referring to me not being boring or out of shape) LOL
Seriously though, the thing I really wanted to tell him is that when I was 26 I couldn’t imagine dating a 50 yr old. Heck, I can't even imagine it now LOL. But that’s just me. I REALLY wanted to hint about whether she had a motive because she sings but I didn't bring it up. He’s no producer or anything like that but he just knows a lot of people. I told him that he knows in his heart and she knows if they're ready for that and he kind of looked like that answer didn't help him. Heck, I don't even know what that means but I didn't know what to say.
![Look :look: :look:](/smilies/look.gif)
Anyway, what’s your advice to this guy friend??? I don’t want this thread to get into whether or not he’s too old to have a child because that’s a different topic. I would never give him advice to leave or stay because it’s up to them both but he really sounded like he was confused. Of course I have no idea how SHE feels about it because it’s only his one-sided story.
Have any of you dated someone that much older than you and care to share your experiences or give advice for him? It was funny that the pic of Rocsi and Eddie Murphy came out and I thought about him
![Grin :grin: :grin:](/smilies/grin.gif)