@Lucia
Thank you.I will share your links .
What you are doing is so beautiful, please keep it up. When your FH finds out, he will be so grateful. I remember watching an episode of Life on the Rock ( EWTN) where a young ,married couple ,who started a ministry were discussing how they met etc. The guy said that he was floored when she showed him a prayer diary she had maintained over the years for her FH. He was living a pretty debauched life and he remembered the day he fell to his knees suddenly begging God for mercy and change. Of course you know that day matched her strongest entry in that prayer diary!! I can't remember the name of their ministry but they also shared stories of men in the ministry proposing during Adoration or in front of The Blessed Sacrament. I was a blubbering wreck when I heard that, and I am not the crying type, but just the sheer beauty of including Christ in your engagement!! I wish I had taken my faith more seriously before I got married, I wish I had put love of God as the first requirement in a FH. But better late than never I guess, my husband is a good and kind man, but I am so desperate for him to have that joy and peace that only Jesus can give. Like I stated upthread, he is thawing. We all went to mass together this past Christmas day, a first in 12 years!!
Sorry the post was so long.