Mother -in-law CLOWNED!!!!

[dlewis]

Those MIL's, who needs them?

 

[WomanlyCharm]

Lawd have mercy, that woman would have gotten a pan upside the head if it had been me, girl you have more patience than I do!!!

Let her make one more remark...just one. Then tell that low down ol' witch (very pleasantly of course):
"You know, you may be right. I intend to start acting more like a woman with my husband from this day forward." (I'm gagging myself as I write this.)
"We definately need to spend some alone time together...we need to go back to working on our marriage in our home, alone. Thanks for coming to visit, we always enjoy having you around, (I know lying is a sin, but you gotta!) but it's probably time you went home, since I need to work on MY marriage like you say I should."

Scummy mummy can't argue with THAT.

 

[Sweetcoco82]

Ah lord girl you got an awful MIL too. How dare she say that about your hair. It looks cute to me. I guess she would thin i was a down right awful wife. I have been rocking a bun for years. I haven't worn my hair down for longer than 5 mins around hubby for over a year. I hate my MIL too. I know hate is a strong word, but oh well its the truth. I dont even know where to begin. She bothers the hell out her 2 kids. Pops over when ever. Well she stopped doing that mess here cause i didn't answer the door. If i am int he bedroom with the door close and TV up i cant hear the bell anways. So i just played the i was sleep or i didn't hear the bell card. Shoot i dont want to be bother with that woman. Once she came by and said that my Sister-inlaw had some head to do at the salon up the street and that she would come back and get her when she was done doing hair. I was like sorry but i am going out. Then she goes well i'll come with you. Um no you didn't just invite yourself to go with me. I my friend invited me over i am taking my daughter to go play with her son. Then she goes oh then leaves. I swear my MIL isn't right upstairs.

Once i was in the car with dh and he had picked her up to take her somewhere. And she asked him how the baby was doing. I was pregnant at the time. And he goes the baby is fine she went to the doctor yesterday. Then she goes in a nasty tone. I should have came and got her to take her out because she sits in the house all the time. Screw that! I wanted to tell her to get out MY car and get a cab for real. I took her with me once the only reason she wanted to go was to get me to take her a ton of places after my appointment. Call a cab!!!!

Sorry to rant on myself. But girl i am feeling for you. I dont think i could deal with my MIL staying in my house. She would think she was entitled to go with me everywhere i went. Shot you aint my momma. I think i would have to take a trip to go see my mother in MD for awhile.

 

[MsCounsel]

Ummm...... My mouth is agape. I don't know what to say. What in the hell????!!!!!????? I'm a bit old fashion so I understand where your MIL is coming from but DAMN - stay out of grown folks business!!! Suggestion: During the week, I wear my hair in protective styles and yes the BF has made comments that he'd like to see my hair curled and out. So on the weekend, I wear my hair down and out. Happy compromise.

God's blessings, Good luck......

 

[Healthb4Length]

OMG! I'm sorry you have a MIL like that! But you know what? U can't please everyone and something tells me that NOTHING pleases this woman. Some times it's not even about you! People like this are so messed up on the inside that they try and project their hurt and pain on you. All I can say is keep your head up and remain strong!

 

[caligirl]

What she said to you was extremely rude. Especially to say it in front of your husband and try to embarass you. Who has time for that anyway, unless your a stay-at-home mom?
I think your hair looks fine. But guys do like women to wear their hair down every now and then. I think it gives them a sense that your kind of laid back and free. I would wear it down whenever I was going out out with a guy, but at home it would definitely be up.

 

[myco]

What she said to you was extremely rude. Especially to say it in front of your husband and try to embarass you.

I agree. But that was completely intentional. The perfect time to start a fight or strife over something trivial is as soon as a person hits the door from work. The person coming in hasn't had a chance to completely decompress and then you start pushing their buttons - it's on!

I like your bun, but if you think there is a need for compromise, I agree with the other posters that you can wear it up during the week and down on the weekend.

 

[shawniegee]

Why don't you ask him. I wear my hair simular. I thought my SO was sick of it but he said he liked because it show my face. You never know.
It sounds like it's more of an issue with your mother in law than your honey.

 

[carameldiva]

i love your hair j squirrel- you and your hair are very presentable. Sorry that you have to endure this- i guess that is one reason i am not married some of the mothers of my bfs would have damn near driven me to murder or insanity. Keep doing what you are doing.

 

[*ElleB]

Whoa, but it does sound like your husband would like to see you do something with your hair, but his mamma doesn't need to be all in your business, stirring up things, now that is just plain wrong! And BTW, ur hair look nice to me, presentable and NEAT. And your hair texture is very pretty.

 

[Teacake]

Wow. Your hair looks nice, and neat. Good luck with your MTG. Your MIL is really out of line. She needs to worry about her OWN hair. Some of these old school women are too much. I'm getting a visual of your MIL's wig...LOL!!!!