I was raised in a military town. So from a young child to an adult I watched my friends parents cheat on each other, find out about Dad's other family, get moved around, domestic violence, get divorced, etc...Some couples were great but it wasn't common place. Just be careful. Research the man thoroughly and with social media, the internet and affordable background checks makes it easier to do. Many (not all) of the men have girlfriends, fiancees and wives & families back home or different states. Deployment is extremely stressful. Think single parent, then regular parenting,single parent, then regular parenting,single parent, then regular parenting for years. I was determined not to get serious with any of them but I partied my butt off, dated a few (not seriously though), made loads of friends and had a blast.