Grandma and great grandma generally got married at 19 and younger in a lot of instances, out of necessity, they didn't have many options. Not to mention the fact that people were generally a lot more mature back in the day, young men and women running whole farms at like 13. We are a spoiled, impatient generation currently. Back in the day, women generally weren't encouraged to get an education, remember, so they relied on their husbands to provide in most instances and they had to do hard manual labor right along side him. Today, I am sure you know that thanks to education, we as women can take care of ourselves (we don't need men to pay our bills), so this puts a whole new light on what we're even supposed to be about in marriage. Which is why we need preparationfor marriage in TODAY'S world. We are marrying later in life because we chose to do college and career! Nothing wrong with that. However, people are struggling in relationships because you have two alpha, career driven people who don't see the real necessity in staying together or making a commitment to marriage in the first place 'cause they are more about career than relationship...good or bad, that is our society today.
Yes hairlove, we are kinda saying the same thing. I got nothing but love for ya, but I'm really done.
Yes hairlove, we are kinda saying the same thing. I got nothing but love for ya, but I'm really done.