Yea men do this all the time. They don't want to feel like someone else is in control.
I once cut a dude off cause he was being stingy wit the money. Then he starts sending me flowers weekly, little love notes the whole nine.
I told him about himself and he agreed wanting to make things "right"
I said OK to a date, he sent a car to pick me up, took me to a very nice resturant. We had a nice time.
Then didn't hear from him for a whole week (I'm stubborn so I never text first LOL) He text me with "I just wanted you to know we're done"
Uhhhhh okay
I didn't respond.
He then proceeds to hit me up everyday, getting angry that I'm not responding to his rude ass!!
He definitely had a thing for dramatics, he didn't just want to stop talking to me, he wanted me to be heartbroken and damaged over his dumbazz
I don't play wit drama so he stays cut off.
Except one time one of his lil girlfriends called me, talmbout my picture is in his phone
(still boy its been 3 months) and she started getting crazy yelling and **** at me. Anyway I ended up flipping the convo back to him, and I convinced her to slice up 3 of his tires on his car.
She sent me a pic afterward
She's cool and we are good friends now, but men and their egos will ruin you if you're susceptible.