Glib Gurl
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For those of you who don't live with your SO, how do you deal with a man who doesn't like to talk on the phone, email, etc.? Now I know some will say, "Oh well if he isn't always trying to hit you up on the phone/email/text, then he isn't really into you." But I was talking with some male colleagues about this and they were like, "Maaaan, why do women always want to TALK?" and felt that it was too much to be following up all the time in between calls.
Dutch Chocolate is one of these, it seems. I get anxious waiting to hear from him, but in the interest of not trying to be clingy or seem desperate, I am NOT trying to be all calling and emailing him in between our dates (which is usually once a week or once every other week). He's not officially my boyfriend (yet ) so in truth he doesn't "owe" me any additional communication . . . and I don't want to have to tell him to do these things . . . or maybe I should? After all, the closed mouth doesn't get fed.
This is all so amusing. I am usually a tough-as-nails, I-don't-need-a-man persona . . . this dude has me walking around all giggly, with a smile on my face and always checking my voicemail
*sigh*
Dutch Chocolate is one of these, it seems. I get anxious waiting to hear from him, but in the interest of not trying to be clingy or seem desperate, I am NOT trying to be all calling and emailing him in between our dates (which is usually once a week or once every other week). He's not officially my boyfriend (yet ) so in truth he doesn't "owe" me any additional communication . . . and I don't want to have to tell him to do these things . . . or maybe I should? After all, the closed mouth doesn't get fed.
This is all so amusing. I am usually a tough-as-nails, I-don't-need-a-man persona . . . this dude has me walking around all giggly, with a smile on my face and always checking my voicemail
*sigh*
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