Men don't have the right

[bravenewgirl87]

Opinions are like a$$holes, everybody has one. I don't like men with facial hair but if he had all the other characteristics that I was looking for I would work with it. Hair shouldn't be a deal breaker, not should he have to walk around acting like he loves everything you do.

I don't get why women feel like a man has to shut up and like everything they do. This may be why some of us can't find anyone. #unrealisticexpectations

Here's the unrealistic expectation: the minute a woman opens her mouth about everything we don't like about our men, we're vilified. And, many of the things we don't like are weighed a lot heavier than the textureor "realness" of hair. Women "shut up and put up" all the time but the second you ask a man do to so you have unrealistic expectations?rolleyes:

 

[bravenewgirl87]

I'm honestly surprised at some of the responses.

Isn't being in a relationship about give and take? I think in our strive to be "superwomen" and "miss independents", we forget that.

If you have a good husband/partner who treats you like a queen, works hard, is faithful, and your momma loves him, and the only thing he's "asking" of you is to consider another hairstyle, you're a pretty lucky girl.shrug

Why are you lucky?erplexed

 

[bravenewgirl87]

My goodness. I guess I'm just gonna have to agree to disagree with most of my LHCF sisters on this one.

Or, maybe we're not talking about the same kind of man. I'm talking about a GOOD man, who means the world to you, and you to him, and he treats you as such. If this wonderful man said to you, "Babe, would you consider wearing your own hair instead of the weave?", [/I]

That may be a good man for some but not for me.