I met my husband shoveling snow.
I totally was NOT expecting to meet anyone, and didn't expect him to be the son of my next door neighbor. But we had a great conversation and it ended there only I couldn't stop thinking about him. I tracked this man DOWN (do you hear me??!) I looked at tax records to find his last name, did google searches, tried to find him on myspace.com - everything!!...couldn't find him for anything. I even tried to talk myself out of it... like, well, maybe i was feeling him more than he was feeling me
Anyway, to make a long story short, I made one final attempt and looked him up on facebook (by the suggestion of one of my male friends. See, my husband was in his senior year at a university and he told me this during our snow shovel conversation, so I was able to look up his graduating class) I went thru so many pages looking for him and because of his last name, he was like LAST on the list (and the whole time I'm thinking to myself
I must be crazy :crazy: I wasn't able to find him on all my other searches because I was mispelling his first name before, but once I found the correct spelling I was able to find him on myspace and send him a message.
The rest is history. We met up again, had more amazing conversations and just really hit it off.
He is an amazing person and I'm so happy I met him! We had a SHORT courtship! We were married within 6 months of meeting eachother and I couldn't be happier!
I must admit I'd come into a content season in my life and was ok with being single, AND I had shut all of those other "doors" (ie, past deadend relationships). Once I'd done that and focused on being happy and attracting positive things in my life (and also after I had decided to obey the gospel and attend to my spiritual life) things litterally fell into place.
You never know when you will meet The One... mine showed up at my front door!