BlackHairDiva
Well-Known Member
Correct me if I'm wrong.
I'm suspecting that we(BW) are imposing ourselves deadlines when it comes to marriage. It seems like when we hit 30 we all start to sweat and doubt erupts.
Yesterday, I dealt with a client(WW) who was all joys cause she got married. She doesn't have kids. Never been married. She is 44( born in 1965). It seems WW don't sweat as much as we do and they never assume that they won' marry. It's like there is no "expiration date" in their heads when it comes to " until when can i remain marriage material or be able to find mate"
Could this be our pitfall? Is it that many of us assume the worst when really we are all able to get married, just not when everyone or when we expect it.
What do y'all think?
I'm suspecting that we(BW) are imposing ourselves deadlines when it comes to marriage. It seems like when we hit 30 we all start to sweat and doubt erupts.
Yesterday, I dealt with a client(WW) who was all joys cause she got married. She doesn't have kids. Never been married. She is 44( born in 1965). It seems WW don't sweat as much as we do and they never assume that they won' marry. It's like there is no "expiration date" in their heads when it comes to " until when can i remain marriage material or be able to find mate"
Could this be our pitfall? Is it that many of us assume the worst when really we are all able to get married, just not when everyone or when we expect it.
What do y'all think?