Re: Irresistable
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GrowthSpurt said:
I'm glad to hear that, because right now I am getting so discouraged and I'm starting to want a perm or a texturizer. I want to be natural for as long as possible. I'm not anti-perm or anti-relaxer. I just wanted to see wht my natural hair could do. I just want it to get longer. I'm battling with split ends, I had some inches cut off in January and I really wanted to cry. It's frustrating to deal with my hair because it's not yet long enough to do the daily ponytails, buns...but it is too long to just shake and go (and still have it look professional). I just don't kow what to do with my hair.
You and hairlove are my favorite albums because it goes into so much detail about what you do with your hair, and the different styling options. I think my hair is a cross between Hairlove's, NYCGurl4Eva's and yours. I look to NYCGurl for weave styles and just to see her makeup stuff, you for just general styles and "It will be okay one day" inspiration, and hailove for a step by step breakdown of what to do. Plus she is so dedicated to caring for her hair. Her and Don'tSpekDefeat realy break it down and I appreciate that.
I just want this **it to grow more. Right now it seems like it's not growing. When I go to get it braided, they see it, they say it's growing, but I don't. I just wish the hair fairy would come tap me on the scalp with her growth wand. Seeing my hair hard pressed is the only time I get inspired. And that is only about once every 4 months or so.
I am really frustrated. Especially with it being summer. I thought I would have 12 inches more since I joined this board last year. Sometimes I get discouraged and just say ***k it and rake through my hair, go to sleep with it out....
I'll be okay though. I just gotta hold off until I get it braided next week, then I will feel better because I won't have to look at it.
[/ QUOTE ] I had tons of splits at first too...i guess it was still some relaxed hair in there...but that stopped. im so glad to hear my (and others) albums inspire someone...i mean sometimes it feel silly takin so many hair pics...and i dont do that many styles so they usually all look the same and for me im not really growing much anymore..so its not even like im documenting progress. i plan on stopping taking pics soon...cause im like there isnt very many different types of pics i can take , unless i do something different lol.
and yes, braids always made me feel better and took my mind off my hair , they were a Godsend i swear...cause sometimes i would start chopping and totally mess my hair up just at the frustration....do you take a good vitamin regimen? its amazing how much good nutrition can jump start things....otherwise you just gotta hang in there girl. braids will help you get through it and before you know it you will have the ease of the pony tail and bun