In 2024 I did a record five (5) trims. The first was in early January to start the year. The next ones were in March, June, September and then December.
I do not cut. I trim off just the very bottom of the hair. I try to section the hair exactly in the same sections with the same quantity of hair with every trim.
@keranikki is the one who changed my views on frequent trims. She has a method and maybe if we ask her nicely, she may drop in and grace us with her time and give us a detailed explanation with visuals!
I personally could see a huge difference in my hair with the third trim in June and the fourth trim in September.
Blowing my hair out in conjunction with the trims is what provided the incredible visual where I was able to clearly see my own length gains.
Danger: Trimming your own hair with good results is a learned skill!
I finally learned to confidently trim my hair myself in 2024, with good results . This was hugely gratifying and freeing.
Now, I’m 100% independent of a stylist. I can do everything myself, to my satisfaction.
Lastly, my blow drying results got better each time I blow dried before a trim in 2024. That is a skill, too. AND each person has a preferred technique, tools and process.
I learned the hard way that I have to have a comb attachment on my blow dryer. And, I must use hot air and high heat. And, I must dry my hair in 16 to 25 small sections. And, I must use a spray bottle with water to mist every section before I begin to blow it out, or it won’t turn out well.
All of this took time , and trial and error and analysis.
Again, hair, especially Afro hair, is complex.
If you are trying to find your way with your hair and ends, please be patient with yourself. Please give yourself grace. Please be gentle and kind to yourself.
Some people find their way quickly and are able to stay on a growth track for their entire luscious ends journey.
Then there are those of us, like myself, who have been riding this train for years and getting off track every 5 miles on a 1000 mile journey. It is what it is.
If you want them luscious ends, then you must be willing to be able to learn and listen to the wisdom and learn the language of your own hair.
As with any ‘foreign’ language one is trying to acquire, different from your own mother tongue, it takes time to become fluent for most people.
So, set your expectations accordingly.
Strap in tightly, I can FEEL 2024 is going to be filled with hair changing AHA moments and hair transformative epiphanies.
The real question is, “Are YOU ready to step into your Higher Self and attain those luscious, healthy hair ends in 2025?”