Alright, so I see that my NEW BREAKPOINT, or the place where my hair breaks now is around tailbone length.
Since 2018, my hair has been breaking and growing around tailbone length. From 2019 to end of 2022,
about four (4) years, I have been at the SAME length. My hair in BULK, has NEVER grown past this
length.
So this tells me that whatever I'm doing when my hair is at this length is not working for my hair. For the sake
of this argument, let's assume I am not at my hair's terminal length and that the possibility exists that it can
continue to gain more length.
Nape Area:
I never focused on my nape and know that I have consistently broken this hair off in this area without
care. Now, I care because I realize it is messing with my length retention and progress.
Ends of Hair:
Shea Butter has done her job and gotten me back to this length in the 2011 and 2018 pictures. Wearing
the braids has left more of my ends exposed. I was okay when I was greasing the ends of my braids with
castor oil nightly and bagging the ends. But, I slacked off my Ends Routine. That slacking coupled with
leaving my braids loose and rubbing on my shoulders AND having to break apart velcro-like hair ends
have added to breakage and poor length retention and poor health of my ends. Thus, my ends are nowhere
near being long or luscious. It's the reality of the situation.
Baggy Method + Vaseline:
So the question begs, "How do I get past THIS tailbone breakpoint?" Well, my hair thrives with protective styling.
I had the most success with baggying and Vaseline. Hence, I've returned to just that: the Baggy Method with Vaseline.
I stopped because my hair actually knotted on itself because it was so slick. I had to cut three (3) inches off to remove
the large knot. That was MY fault for not maintaining my hair.
Lack of Consistency:
Another issue of mine is lack of consistency. If I don't keep processes up, that's like sleeping on your math book before
a test. It just doesn't work.
Not Real Cute/Boring Style:
The last issue for me is that sometimes I want to look cute and the baggie style is not always cute all the time. Thus, I drop off in consistency. But
that is just an excuse. Either you want something or you don't and you need to do what it takes to get there.
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