[USER=10150 said:virtuenow[/USER];19492475]faithVA did you (and other ladies) graduate from the Crown & Edges challenge. I didn't hear of everyone's progress.
How do you all protect your ends when you clarify? Do you use clarifying shampoos or other alternatives? I notice that if a shampoo is too drying/stripping my ends scream bloody murder!
[USER said:Jace032000;19498993[/USER]]Last week I had a flexi rod set done…what a disaster! The amount of hairspray and gel that was put on my hair left it in a tangled mess. I broke down and washed the $55 style out --- my ends were breaking off because all of the gel that she "sealed" with. I did a shampoo/wash and put some deep masque shea conditioner on my hair (never using that again btw as my hair felt like a rat's nest afterwards). The whole point of having the roller set done was for protective styling…looks like I did more damage then anything as my hair looks TERRIBLE! After washing it last night I slathered coconut oil all over it--covered my hair and went to sleep. My hair feels okay…but looks awful. Not sure what to do at this point. It's in a pony tail right now…and it can stay there as far as I'm concerned. Feeling pretty discouraged right now...
[USER said:Jace032000;19499515[/USER]]Thank you so much---there will definitely be a lot of babying here lol. I'm going to take my hair out of this pony tail and give it some TLC…*sigh*
Last week I had a flexi rod set done…what a disaster! The amount of hairspray and gel that was put on my hair left it in a tangled mess. I broke down and washed the $55 style out --- my ends were breaking off because all of the gel that she "sealed" with. I did a shampoo/wash and put some deep masque shea conditioner on my hair (never using that again btw as my hair felt like a rat's nest afterwards). The whole point of having the roller set done was for protective styling…looks like I did more damage then anything as my hair looks TERRIBLE! After washing it last night I slathered coconut oil all over it--covered my hair and went to sleep. My hair feels okay…but looks awful. Not sure what to do at this point. It's in a pony tail right now…and it can stay there as far as I'm concerned. Feeling pretty discouraged right now...
Hey ladies---thank you. I broke down and did a honey/olive oil treatment today…I only left it on my hair for 15 mins…but it worked a miracle! My hair feels soo much better. I then detangled in the shower and once I got out put some Cocoa Curls on my hair (a random product I bought on Amazon which turned out to be AMAZING). I slicked my hair into two buns and it now has a beautiful soft wave to it. The Cocoa Curls has silicones in -- my hair loves silicones…but too much of it has the opposite affect.
__________________
I have cowashed more often this week and my hair is feeling a bit better. My ends slightly better. I bit the bullet and dusted them to see if I can stop the breakage. Somehow I am going to make SL this year with healthy ends.
Last week I had a flexi rod set done…what a disaster! The amount of hairspray and gel that was put on my hair left it in a tangled mess. I broke down and washed the $55 style out --- my ends were breaking off because all of the gel that she "sealed" with. I did a shampoo/wash and put some deep masque shea conditioner on my hair (never using that again btw as my hair felt like a rat's nest afterwards). The whole point of having the roller set done was for protective styling…looks like I did more damage then anything as my hair looks TERRIBLE! After washing it last night I slathered coconut oil all over it--covered my hair and went to sleep. My hair feels okay…but looks awful. Not sure what to do at this point. It's in a pony tail right now…and it can stay there as far as I'm concerned. Feeling pretty discouraged right now...
Jace032000, I bet that you used Shea Moisture deep treatment masque. I used it for the second time today, and it's going into the trash. I don't think that it does a good job of moisturizing, even when I added additional olive oil. I'm glad the honey and oil worked for you.
Sorry that you ended up wasting money for your hairstyle. I stopped using hairspray years ago because it dries and breaks my hair. I rarely use gel for the same reason.
[USER=34971 said:Lisaaa Bonet[/USER];19520411]I would like to join this thread. Sorry I do not have a more recent pic. I just got a touch up this past weekend where my stylist cut 1.5 inches of bad/friend ends . Even though I was disappointed, I knew in my heart that the ends had to go . I had been holding on to them for too long and they were cramping my style. I must admit that I stopped DCing 2x a week when I got busy with my new job and I can definitely see the impact of that.
Plan
I plan to condition my ends each night before I tie my head.
I plan to give away all products that do not have glycerine as the 1st/2nd ingredient
I plans to DC 2x per week as I had been doing prior to starting my job in Spring of last year.
I plan on checking in often with this thread and the DC thread in order to remain accountable.
My goal is to see a major improvement on the quality of my ends by my next touch up/texturizer in 4 months
Happy to share ideas with everyone