Is this the first time you have seen him in a while or did you see him over the holidays?
You can start off by asking how was your holiday season.
Just talk to him like you would any other casual friend and go from there. That first meeting you may want to do more listening than talking just so you get a real feel for this person. People love to talk about themselves and will tell you things without realizing they are telling you.
It is more nerves than anything the first time. You will be okay.
Is this the first time you have seen him in a while or did you see him over the holidays?
You can start off by asking how was your holiday season.
Just talk to him like you would any other casual friend and go from there. That first meeting you may want to do more listening than talking just so you get a real feel for this person. People love to talk about themselves and will tell you things without realizing they are telling you.
It is more nerves than anything the first time. You will be okay.
Sorry...I saw him over the holidays and since then we have texted each other a few days out of the week (small talk) but then he asked me out to lunch...