*****Nic, I'm sorry if I overlooked it, but did you say how long you've been together?
1. How often do you two talk?
We talk everyday, 3-4 times a day. It may seem excessive but for us it's a necessity since we don't get to see each other as often as we'd like. We have a morning call to see how the other one is doing, we have a bedtime call because we like to tell each other good night, and then we have calls throughout the day scattered in between.
2. How do you maintain trust?
If we have issues brewing between us, we talk about it. We talk about everything. If something is still not right, we talk some more. We pray for each other and pray for God to order the direction of our relationship.
3. How often (if ever) do you see one another in person?
Well we have been together for 2 years now, but have been LD for 1 year and 4 months. In the 1 yr & 4 months, we've seen each other 8 times. To me that's not a lot, considering that in previous relationships I was used to seeing my SOs several times a month.
4. What was the outcome of the LDR? Marriage? Breakup?
We are still happy and in love. He plans to move here in December and we're talking about different things in preparation for wedding plans. He wants to get established career-wise and financially before we start officially (telling family and friends the good news, etc) planning.
5. What advice would you give others who are in this setup?
Communicate, pray, have a plan......after all a LDR won't stay that way forever. It's either going to end in marriage (or even just a same-city, closer commute) or end in a break-up. Nic, I would say give yourself some light at the end of your tunnel....make some plans about who will move where and in how long. Because, speaking from experience I was always snappy, and we argued a LOT in the early stages of the LD because I was so sad that we were long distance. It's better now. I HTH girlie