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Hi guys, I really have been extremely confused about a long distance relationship that I've been in. First off, I'm 21 and about to finish an Engineering degree next April. I've been in a long distance relationship with a guy I love very much for the past 5 years. (I'm in GTA Canada and he's in New York). Since I was a student and he was doing min. wage jobs we weren't able to see each other often and that sometimes put a strain on our relationship. The main dilemma now is that I am considering taking a job with a company called Schlumberger as a Field Engineer, however after much research I noticed that it is a company where you have little or no time for family friends or boyfriends since most of your time is spent at work. My first thought was to try getting relocated somewhere in the US and maybe he can come there and we can live together but with the nature of the job we still won't have much time together. The relationship has been long distance for so long and I was hoping that when I graduated it would be possible for us to finally start living together. Personally I don't know what to do and I'm really stressed out about this. I want a well-paying job but I also want my man..how do I have both under the circumstances? Any advice would be greatly appreciated..