Rastafarai
Well-Known Member
Ladies I am in somewhat of a dilemma here and would greatly appreciate your opinion on the subject:
I have been on and off with someone who lives in Trinidad. I was there for one year to study and that is where we met. We started a relationship during my stay, maintained the relationship for about 6 months after I returned to the U.S. and called it quits in January 2008 because the long distance was too hard on the relationship.
During that time we have always maintained contact despite dating other people. There was never a start to a new relationship as we always had the intention to rekindle things after my decision to relocate to the Caribbean come this year.
We reconnected in December 2008 and things went really well. During that time however, a female person was always calling his phone. She is in New York and he met her online. He presumably told her where he stood with me and told her nothing was going to happen between them. She knows of me and the relationship I have had with this male individual.
Anyway, fast forward to January 2009 and the female in question booked her ticket and is currently in the country (Trinidad). They had met each other (supposedly he had to drop something off for her) and he told me about the meet. I spoke to him yesterday about if he had met up with her after that one time and he said he did, only once, because she had something for him. Supposedly it was a new phone that she bought him and he accepted it.
I kept my cool until I found out, through a Facebook photo, TONIGHT, that they went out with some of his friends on his birthday. Both he and she was standing next to each other with some of his friends. That was Tuesday of last week. I am beyond angry at the moment, ESPECIALLY seeing that he did not tell me the full truth when I asked about the nature of their meet.
Moreover, he is supposedly on a weekend vacation in Tobago (Trinidad's sister island) to "clear his head" over someone concocting a lie about me. He said he needs time to think things through.
So here I am, fuming. He is in Tobago "clearing his head" while this female who is feigning over him is also in the same country who he, according to him, has no interest in.
Yet, Facebook revealed that he did meet up with her MORE than twice and did not tell me anything about it.
Am I blowing things out of proportion or do I have reason to be suspicious??? Why da hell do men do this ish?!
I have been on and off with someone who lives in Trinidad. I was there for one year to study and that is where we met. We started a relationship during my stay, maintained the relationship for about 6 months after I returned to the U.S. and called it quits in January 2008 because the long distance was too hard on the relationship.
During that time we have always maintained contact despite dating other people. There was never a start to a new relationship as we always had the intention to rekindle things after my decision to relocate to the Caribbean come this year.
We reconnected in December 2008 and things went really well. During that time however, a female person was always calling his phone. She is in New York and he met her online. He presumably told her where he stood with me and told her nothing was going to happen between them. She knows of me and the relationship I have had with this male individual.
Anyway, fast forward to January 2009 and the female in question booked her ticket and is currently in the country (Trinidad). They had met each other (supposedly he had to drop something off for her) and he told me about the meet. I spoke to him yesterday about if he had met up with her after that one time and he said he did, only once, because she had something for him. Supposedly it was a new phone that she bought him and he accepted it.
I kept my cool until I found out, through a Facebook photo, TONIGHT, that they went out with some of his friends on his birthday. Both he and she was standing next to each other with some of his friends. That was Tuesday of last week.
I am beyond angry at the moment, ESPECIALLY seeing that he did not tell me the full truth when I asked about the nature of their meet. Moreover, he is supposedly on a weekend vacation in Tobago (Trinidad's sister island) to "clear his head" over someone concocting a lie about me. He said he needs time to think things through.
So here I am, fuming. He is in Tobago "clearing his head" while this female who is feigning over him is also in the same country who he, according to him, has no interest in.
Yet, Facebook revealed that he did meet up with her MORE than twice and did not tell me anything about it.
Am I blowing things out of proportion or do I have reason to be suspicious??? Why da hell do men do this ish?!
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