loolalooh
Well-Known Member
So I was watching the Hills reruns last night look:yea, yea). Stephanie tells her friend Lo that she's ready to be in a relationship ...
Matchmake #1: Lo volunteers her boyfriend's friend Max. Lo, her bf, Stephanie, and Max then go on a double date. It goes well so Stephanie and Max go out a second time by themselves. Stephanie and Max amicably stop dating after that; not quite right for each other.
Matchmake #2: Stephanie goes out with her friends (male and female) to a club/restaurant. Brody's friend (I forget his name so I'll call him Jeff), who is also at the gathering, thinks Stephanie is cute. Jeff asks Brody if Stephanie is cool. Even though Brody says no, the point is that Jeff and Stephanie got exposed to each other. Jeff approaches Stephanie, and they set up a date. The two of them hit it off on the date!
The show got me thinking ...
My friends are a mix of singles and gf's in relationships - but mostly singles. My friends are all female except for one male. The male and the gf's in relationships are not at all active in matchmaking the single friends. However, I've witnessed this happening in the white and Asian community. Now I don't want to make any generalizations so I'll just ask ...
Do you feel ohwell that other cultures do more matchmaking than the African American community? Do you feel that other cultures have more co-ed events to allow for self-matchmaking? If so, why is this? If not, elaborate please. Your thoughts?
Matchmake #1: Lo volunteers her boyfriend's friend Max. Lo, her bf, Stephanie, and Max then go on a double date. It goes well so Stephanie and Max go out a second time by themselves. Stephanie and Max amicably stop dating after that; not quite right for each other.
Matchmake #2: Stephanie goes out with her friends (male and female) to a club/restaurant. Brody's friend (I forget his name so I'll call him Jeff), who is also at the gathering, thinks Stephanie is cute. Jeff asks Brody if Stephanie is cool. Even though Brody says no, the point is that Jeff and Stephanie got exposed to each other. Jeff approaches Stephanie, and they set up a date. The two of them hit it off on the date!
The show got me thinking ...
My friends are a mix of singles and gf's in relationships - but mostly singles. My friends are all female except for one male. The male and the gf's in relationships are not at all active in matchmaking the single friends. However, I've witnessed this happening in the white and Asian community. Now I don't want to make any generalizations so I'll just ask ...
Do you feel ohwell that other cultures do more matchmaking than the African American community? Do you feel that other cultures have more co-ed events to allow for self-matchmaking? If so, why is this? If not, elaborate please. Your thoughts?