Latomian
New Member
I've been going out with this guy (we'll call him J) for not very long on a casual basis; we'd have drinks and get something to eat but nothing serious (he said he was emot. unavailable). We even paid for our own meals/drinks.
So, when I was grocery shopping (I keep meeting guys at the grocery store) I noticed "B" staring at me:Blush2:. Then he approached me and asked me out to dinner and I couldn't say no. Now B is very handsome, 6'6, very sweet and has some of the most lengthy, thick gorgeous eyelashes I have ever seen...
I call J and tell him about my dinner date with B...and he gets pissed. I told him about him being "emotionally unavailable" and he said that he wasn't "serious" about that and thought I would wait until he was ready. After a while, he cooled down and said he'd like to still see me but now I know his feelings, I'm not sure that's fair to either one of them. Plus, I'm not even sure if he truly wants me or just doesn't want anyone else to have me (like my ex).
J's nice but there was never anything between us. Plus...I'm starting to really like B...and b/c of my last break-up, I never thought that was possible again. But ladies...I can talk to B for hours, he cooks for me, kisses my forehead (I love that)...and I never thought I'd find a guy who likes the same things about me that I like about myself:Rose:
Ok...long story short...should I let J down gently? And if so, how can I do it in a nice way?
So, when I was grocery shopping (I keep meeting guys at the grocery store) I noticed "B" staring at me:Blush2:. Then he approached me and asked me out to dinner and I couldn't say no. Now B is very handsome, 6'6, very sweet and has some of the most lengthy, thick gorgeous eyelashes I have ever seen...
I call J and tell him about my dinner date with B...and he gets pissed. I told him about him being "emotionally unavailable" and he said that he wasn't "serious" about that and thought I would wait until he was ready. After a while, he cooled down and said he'd like to still see me but now I know his feelings, I'm not sure that's fair to either one of them. Plus, I'm not even sure if he truly wants me or just doesn't want anyone else to have me (like my ex).
J's nice but there was never anything between us. Plus...I'm starting to really like B...and b/c of my last break-up, I never thought that was possible again. But ladies...I can talk to B for hours, he cooks for me, kisses my forehead (I love that)...and I never thought I'd find a guy who likes the same things about me that I like about myself:Rose:
Ok...long story short...should I let J down gently? And if so, how can I do it in a nice way?