How often does your SO go out with friends?
My SO has a friend that he's been knowing forever...lately the friend and his girlfriend have been on the outs...Dude calls my SO EVERY SINGLE weekend to go out. Friday, Sat. and Sun. asking him to go out somewhere....some cookout, some party, some-something. All though he doesn't go out every weekend, he is starting to go out more. When he doesn't go out, I can hear him telling the dude that he wanted to just chill and spend time with me and it's like the friend is always bragging about what fun they had or constantly asking him why he didn't go out with him.
Like I said, this is causing a lot of problems with me and him. He says that the fellow is his best friend and there's nothing wrong with him calling asking him to go out...BUT DAMN every weekend??!!! Sometimes, I feel that my SO just goes out to prove to his homeboy that he's not a punk or something, I don't know. I told my SO that he is going to end up being with him if he keeps it up. It's like he doesn't understand and can't comprehend what I'm saying.
I have a SERIOUS problem with this...any suggestions, advice, similar stories?
My SO has a friend that he's been knowing forever...lately the friend and his girlfriend have been on the outs...Dude calls my SO EVERY SINGLE weekend to go out. Friday, Sat. and Sun. asking him to go out somewhere....some cookout, some party, some-something. All though he doesn't go out every weekend, he is starting to go out more. When he doesn't go out, I can hear him telling the dude that he wanted to just chill and spend time with me and it's like the friend is always bragging about what fun they had or constantly asking him why he didn't go out with him.
Like I said, this is causing a lot of problems with me and him. He says that the fellow is his best friend and there's nothing wrong with him calling asking him to go out...BUT DAMN every weekend??!!! Sometimes, I feel that my SO just goes out to prove to his homeboy that he's not a punk or something, I don't know. I told my SO that he is going to end up being with him if he keeps it up. It's like he doesn't understand and can't comprehend what I'm saying.
I have a SERIOUS problem with this...any suggestions, advice, similar stories?