diamond_nh
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Well today I went to Sally's. A girl that I use to go to college with works there. Well I try to avoid her ( but that is another story). She caught me today lol. Well I had my hair going back with a headband on and she asked if that was my hair. Well I answered yes and the next thing I know this chick's hands are patting down my hair. She is lucky I know her. But still I felt kind of violated but then again kind of good also
. On one hand, I was like damn I didn't know my hair was looking that good and on the other hand I was like I just washed my hair and this chick who was probably just smoking is putting her hands through it. I am so obsessed with cleanliness I felt like going home and washing it again (my mother said that I am crazy). Normally I would told this girl about herself but "the my hair is looking good" just took over lol.
But anyway any time I see this girl, in or out, of the beauty supply she seems obsessed with my hair. I don't get it. When I was in school I wore braids/weaves alot of the time and she still focused on my hair. Now she is one of those people that claim they are a beautician but whose hair and weaves always looks jacked up.
I thought I would share because I read your stories about being violated by strangers and never thought it would happen to me. I mean it happens with friends and family members, but this girl is just someone I had a class with and conversated with casually and she felt she had the right to do this. I would never put my hands in someone's hair that I am not close to, especially without asking. And now that I am thinking about it, I answered her question and it was like she was calling me a liar by having to feel it. By the way, my hair is a few inches above bra strap and I didn't think it would be such a big deal. Matter of fact I wish it was thicker but I guess we always see the flaws in our hair while other people see the true beauty.
But anyway any time I see this girl, in or out, of the beauty supply she seems obsessed with my hair. I don't get it. When I was in school I wore braids/weaves alot of the time and she still focused on my hair. Now she is one of those people that claim they are a beautician but whose hair and weaves always looks jacked up.
I thought I would share because I read your stories about being violated by strangers and never thought it would happen to me. I mean it happens with friends and family members, but this girl is just someone I had a class with and conversated with casually and she felt she had the right to do this. I would never put my hands in someone's hair that I am not close to, especially without asking. And now that I am thinking about it, I answered her question and it was like she was calling me a liar by having to feel it. By the way, my hair is a few inches above bra strap and I didn't think it would be such a big deal. Matter of fact I wish it was thicker but I guess we always see the flaws in our hair while other people see the true beauty.
