ITS MY HAIR!!!!!!!!!!

[SimpleBrooklyn]

thank you. i rationalized the situation because I was over the usher board but inside i kept saying that this is how God made me why should I be ashamed. Why? because folks in church kept looking at my hair when talking and not my eyes.

This is a shame. In the CHURCH of all places!!!! The place where you can come as you are and worship. Like seriously...that is ridiculous.

But, shoot, I'm here for you and I know your husband is too!!

 

[NYAmicas]

As a relaxed head I think your natural hair is lovely.
I dont know how I would feel if I wasnt a member of LHCF but I do think that it has made me more open to the idea of natural hair. Truthfully, I wouldnt have tried to make you feel bad for your choice but I probably would have teased you since I'd be so unfamiliar to it if I hadnt learned so much here. Some people cant expand their minds to things that are new/strange to them without education or exposure.

 

[chocolatetresses]

Girrrrrrrl! You took everything out of my mouth!Sometimes I really want to tell people off who have some dumb crap to say about my hair and transitioning. For instance...I have a very close friend of mine who is against the whole Big Chop decision b/c she said I was going to look like michael jackson. It kind of hurt my feeling but at the same time I was ROTFL and brushed it off. I guess that's how I get over people's ignorance. Just brush it off b/c when it's all said and done it's your hair and ALL hair is beautiful whether it be relaxed, texlaxed, natural, Hell even bald head!