I've started wrapping my hair starting with a "back side part" like I saw on YouTube...that is, instead of starting with a "front side part" you part it in the back (yes, lean forward), that stopped alot of my flyaways while my front breaka...ahem, i mean layers grew in and it is still the method I prefer. The other day however I noticed I had started wrapping my hair and laying my silk scarf RIGHT on my edges!!! Like an idiot, everytime I would roll over while sleeping BAM!! So now I tie it "Aunt Jemima Style" and it sits more like a bonnet then a tight scarf...I think of all the things this site has taught me, it's to stop being so "extra-extra"---extra oil, extra tight, extra straight etc! So I just keep that in mind when I am tempted to tie it tight. Also, I wrap without pins most of the time, but I do START with the crown, that gives a better wrap for me and also allows me to only have to give my edges 1 pass with the comb or brush.
So, in short:
1) I like wrapping, for me it can actually protect my edges better than say, regularly sleeping with a ponytail
2) I tie my scarf Aunt Jemima Style
3) I start with a "back side part" and then rotate from the crown.
If I'm going for something different (curly or something) I pin curl.
ALSO, I once realized that I heavily favor my RIGHT side when sleeping, so now I have to keep that in check!!!!
HTH