I am relaxed and I M&S daily. I find that it helps to keep breakage at a minimum. I go by the feel of my hair in terms of what it needs but I usually use a very light oil. During the winter months I use heavier oil and butters daily.
Beamodel whats your porosity btw
I moisturize daily. I use a spray leave in mixed with an oil. My hair is very soft. I figure just like our bodies need hydration so does our hair.
I've always wondered this as well.
I've only recently started to really pay attention to my hair and take care of it. Maybe it's just my thoughts but when I first heard of moisturizing and sealing it with oil I thought it was a little bit dumb. For relaxed heads at least.
For me I relax because I like my hair having swing and body and flowing. y hair is dry but it gets oily quick and the idea of putting oil on it daily in a relaxed, flow and swing state gets it looking trashy and just plain bad. I like wearing my hair down and even light oil in about 2 days gets the "spacey" look. Where strands are clumped together and not so flowing.
My mom calls it the spacey look and I've since called it that as well. You know the look. Where a black woman with say shoulder length hair is in a picture and the strands a together and not free falling like a fresh relaxer. When a relaxer is 2 weeks post and the swing is gone because it hasn't been washed look with stick straight ends. Many don't mind this look but me personally I think I look and I feel silly.
With longer hair I might do it daily because I have the option for a ponytail but with my hair shorter and my sides recovering from balding I'm not comfortable with my hair up so it staying it a "just walked out of the shop" Pantene swing with bumped under ends look is what I've been going for health be damned. I need to feel confident and not self conscious that my hair is spacing and clumping on the side and shine bald is showing.
Hey FelaShrine, how are you?
Some of my favorite products to moisturize are:
HH Pink Lemon Berry Mimosa
Darcy Botanical Sweet Cocoa Bean Moisturizing Hair Whip
Bee Mine Deja's Hair Milk
Annabelle's Moisturizing Hair Creme
Kizuri Olive & Shea Moisture Butter
Qhemert Biologicc Burdock Root Butter Cream
Qhemert Biologics Amla and Olive Heavy Cream
Donna Marie Super Buttercreme
Bee Mine Luscious Balanced Moisturizer
Some of my favorite products to seal are:
Unpetroleum Jelly
Marie Dean's Organic Jojoba Oil
Marie Dean's Organic Argan Oil
Marie Dean's
Hairveda's Vatika Frosting
Marie Dean Baobab Oil
Annabelle's Ayurvedic Hair Oil
Thanks again for the list Rozlewis..do you use these dame things for leave-ins on wash day or different stuff? (if so what? )
Hi FelaShrine
I mainly use products as directed. For my leave-ins I use different products. For example:
Annabelle's Perfect Blends Leave-ins
Giovanni Direct Leave-in
Komaza Care Matani Leave-in
Mixed Chicks Leave-in
There are others but these are the main ones I use.