shortycocoa
Hair Weave Killer
You should take your father's advice in this situation.
How is he your best friend? How is he a good guy? And who said if you let him go that you would be with a guy that cheats all the time? erplexed
I was thinking the same thing....and furthermore, if that were the case, if she doesn't agree with cheating men why would she stay?
There's no way this story is real. No way.
I wonder what Steve Harvey and Shirley Strawberry would have to say about this scenario...
I KNOW if I stay with him, I would regret it, because I regret getting back together with him on valentine's day after we broke up for the same reasons. I've always had doubts, but sometimes I tell my doubts to hush because I'm like that with everyone I meet. My family always laughs saying that I don't keep them around for long, but how can I when they have issues that im not comfortable with? I guess I need to pick them better, and stop inviting everyone I like to family gatherings, etc.
My father always told me, "Never let your sympathy for a man, outweigh your interest."And at this point...it does. My dad already gave his opinion, "kick him to the curb." lol. I think what makes it so hard for me is the fact that he's my best friend, and vice versa and I don't want to hurt him. He's been in so many bad relationships and he's a good guy. He always says if it doesnt work between us, he's done with dating..and I think he might even consider suicide (he's attempted in his past). Oh yeah...Number 8 or 9 I forget: He's bipolar.
And then it's the fact that he's faithful. I know all men aren't cheaters, but I don't want to let him go for a guy that cheats all time erplexed
This reminds me of that episode of Girlfriends when Joan and Ellis were breaking up and he mentioned that they really never were a great fit and needed to be honest about that fact. He said he felt like it was over for a long time but he just didn't want to be another one of the guys she kept $#*#@ing about that did 'poor old Joan' wrong.