I flat ironed my hair last month and a large portion of it is now heat damaged. Some parts are totally straight. I had been thinking of relaxing my hair before the damage but decided to wait until next year. Now that it's damaged, I want to go ahead and relax it. Is it too soon? Is it a good idea? It's also falling out, I'm not sure if it's breaking or shedding. At this point I feel I don't have much to lose if I relax it since it's damaged anyway.